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patronizing

American  
[pey-truh-nahy-zing, pa-] / ˈpeɪ trəˌnaɪ zɪŋ, ˈpæ- /

adjective

  1. displaying or indicative of an offensively condescending manner.

    a patronizing greeting, accompanied by a gentle pat on the back.


patronizing British  
/ ˈpætrəˌnaɪzɪŋ /

adjective

  1. having a superior manner; condescending

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Usage

What does patronizing mean? Patronizing is an adjective that means displaying condescension toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that it’s actually kind or helpful to that person.Patronizing can be used to describe a person or their words, tone, attitude, or actions.Patronizing is also the continuous (-ing) form of the verb patronize, which means to act toward someone in this way. (A separate sense of patronize means to be a customer—or patron—of a business or other establishment.)Being patronizing often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child.Example: Don’t be so patronizing, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.

Other Word Forms

  • nonpatronizing adjective
  • patronizingly adverb
  • quasi-patronizing adjective
  • quasi-patronizingly adverb
  • unpatronizing adjective
  • unpatronizingly adverb

Etymology

Origin of patronizing

First recorded in 1720–30; patronize + -ing 2

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Example Sentences

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Epstein had made donations to Krauss’ Origins Project, part of his larger patronizing of the sciences.

From Salon

A spokeswoman for Ruemmler said that in her message to Epstein, she was “obviously patronizing him.”

From The Wall Street Journal

But those successes are also what make the Netflix-ification of this film feel so completely unnecessary and patronizing.

From Salon

Xavier is much older than she is and seems, frankly, somewhat stupid and patronizing, but the narrator is nevertheless tormented by her feelings for him.

From The Wall Street Journal

While the guidance has the right intention, it can feel patronizing and constraining, some employees and observers say.

From The Wall Street Journal