play footsie
Idioms-
Behave coyly, flirt with, especially secretly. For example, Get to the point, there's no need to play footsie with us . This expression alludes to two persons surreptitiously rubbing each other's feet together. [1940s]
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Cooperate or curry favor with in a sly or secret way, as in The mayor's been playing footsie with various neighborhood councils . [Mid-1900s]
Example Sentences
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Anyway, in the filing, Musk says he doesn’t want to play footsie with Twitter.
From The Verge • Apr. 14, 2022
“They’re not going to play footsie with it or shade anything.”
From Washington Post • Oct. 2, 2018
"I personally prefer to munch away on a sandwich in the privacy of an airline seat rather than being judged as you play footsie with the stranger sitting opposite."
From BBC • Jan. 9, 2015
Day adds: "We do not have to play footsie with businessmen on Main Street."
From Time Magazine Archive
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Rosie rode with him, but they exchanged not one single hand-squeeze, nor one melting glance, nor did they even play footsie while they were eating lunch in the truck outside a filling station.
From Sam, This is You by Leinster, Murray
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