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pleasantry

American  
[plez-uhn-tree] / ˈplɛz ən tri /

noun

pleasantries plural
  1. good-humored teasing; banter.

  2. a humorous or jesting remark.

  3. a courteous social remark used to initiate or facilitate a conversation.

    to exchange pleasantries.

  4. a humorous action.


pleasantry British  
/ ˈplɛzəntrɪ /

noun

  1. (often plural) an agreeable or amusing remark, often one made in order to be polite

    they exchanged pleasantries

  2. an agreeably humorous manner or style

  3. rare enjoyment; pleasantness

    a pleasantry of life

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of pleasantry

1645–55; < French plaisanterie, Old French plesanterie. See pleasant, -ry

Explanation

“It’s so nice to see you.” “Nice weather, yes?” “You look great in that frog costume.” Each of the last three sentences is a pleasantry, a warm and kind-hearted bit of small talk. It’s no accident that the word pleasant is inside pleasantry, since a pleasantry is a simple, polite, and pleasant remark made in a conversation. Pleasantries aren’t that deep — talking about politics or religion might be outside the pleasantry range, but some good-humored chatting never hurt anyone. You might say some pleasantries to a passerby on the street, when you are introduced to someone new, or if your grandmother asks you a question about your dating life.

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It’s unclear if this is a plea or a pleasantry.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 27, 2026

Suddenly things that seem kind of nice because they are little dashes of pleasantry in what may be an otherwise sterile work environment are relatively banal in the context of working from home.

From New York Times • Apr. 14, 2022

Still, there’s no denying that there’s an undercurrent of pleasantry throughout the festival.

From Los Angeles Times • Oct. 11, 2019

Murray seemed embarrassed, mumbled some pleasantry, then turned away.

From Scientific American • Jun. 6, 2019

“I beg your pardon,” offered Edna, in some em-barrassment, for she should have remembered that Mademoiselle Reisz’s avoidance of the water had furnished a theme for much pleasantry.

From "The Awakening" by Kate Chopin

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