selfish
Americanadjective
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devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one's own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.
- Synonyms:
- stingy, parsimonious, illiberal, egoistic, self-seeking, self-interested
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characterized by or manifesting concern or care only for oneself.
selfish motives.
adjective
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chiefly concerned with one's own interest, advantage, etc, esp to the total exclusion of the interests of others
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relating to or characterized by self-interest
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Explanation
Someone who is selfish cares only about themselves and doesn't consider others. If a ship is sinking and you refuse to let anyone else into your 4-person lifeboat, you're extremely selfish. Selfish combines the pronoun self-, meaning to or for yourself, with the suffix-ish, for "having the character of." So if your actions are selfish, they all have to do with getting something for yourself, like attention, or candy, or power. Selfish is usually meant to be an insult; someone selfish goes beyond just taking care of themselves, and actively takes from others. The opposite of selfish is self-sacrificing, which means, "giving everything to others and sacrificing your own needs."
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While both couples were being selfish, the official reactions to the two pairs couldn’t have been more different.
From Salon ● Jul. 8, 2026
If you avoid advocating for yourself because it feels selfish or scary or bad.
From Los Angeles Times ● Jun. 15, 2026
Rook's father, retired Old Bailey judge Peter Rook, branded George "utterly selfish" while her mother Susanna Rook called him "a wicked, totally narcissistic, damaged person".
From BBC ● Jun. 9, 2026
All the characters the excellent Mr. Felciano plays are sinister, selfish or generally priggish.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jun. 5, 2026
“The non-hero returns. The ungrateful, the selfish, the spurner of gifts. Come to complain some more?”
From "Tristan Strong Punches a Hole in the Sky" by Kwame Mbalia
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