sour grapes

American  

plural noun

1. pretended disdain for something one does not or cannot have.

   She said that she and her husband didn't want to join the club anyway, but it was clearly sour grapes.

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sour grapes British  

noun

1. (functioning as singular) the attitude of affecting to despise something because one cannot or does not have it oneself

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sour grapes Idioms  

1. Disparaging what one cannot obtain, as in The losers' scorn for the award is pure sour grapes. This expression alludes to the Greek writer Aesop's famous fable about a fox that cannot reach some grapes on a high vine and announces that they are sour. In English the fable was first recorded in William Caxton's 1484 translation, “The fox said these raisins be sour.”

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Etymology

Origin of sour grapes

First recorded in 1750–60; in allusion to Aesop's fable concerning the fox who, in an effort to save face, dismissed as sour those grapes he could not reach

Example Sentences

To atone, Ana-Maria says, they must eat sour grapes.

From The Wall Street Journal • Dec. 4, 2025

Was it sour grapes, then, when Jamie Dimon called out private-credit firms over the recent spate of bankruptcies hitting banks?

From Barron's • Oct. 24, 2025

On the other hand, it sounds like sour grapes when he says that he never had the opportunity to show that he was able to play.

From Los Angeles Times • Apr. 26, 2025

Pizzolatto’s sour grapes look like the response of a man angry at seeing a job he created and thought was his and his alone be handed to someone else.

From Salon • Feb. 21, 2024

“Ha! Can you imagine the traffic on the interstate trying to get there?” says my mom, in a sour grapes kind of way.

From "Dry" by Neal Shusterman and Jarrod Shusterman