hard way, the

Idioms  

1. By bad or difficult experiences; also, by one's own efforts. For example, Bill found out the hard way that interest on his credit-card debt can mount up fast, or No one can teach you how—you'll just have to learn it the hard way. This expression comes from shooting craps (a dice game), where it refers to making an even-numbered point such as six by throwing doubles (two three's). Since there are more unmatching combinations that can produce the same number (four and two, five and one), the odds against throwing doubles are higher, hence the difficulty. [Early 1900s]

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Example Sentences

Rep. Adam Schiff was reminded of the hard way: The Democratic congressman had his luggage swiped from his car while it was parked in a downtown garage.

From Seattle Times

“Mr. Magana has learned the hard way the effects of his actions — loss of freedom, loss of job, loss of family,” the defense wrote.

From Seattle Times

This is a lesson I didn’t have to learn the hard way: The one time a rental car agency tried to bill me for a door ding, I notified my credit card company.

From Seattle Times

It was nearly 30 years ago that Terry Nooner learned what the Denver Nuggets, Philadelphia 76ers and Washington Wizards each found out the hard way the past two weeks.

From Los Angeles Times

You're learning the hard way the truth of the concept of putting on your oxygen mask first before you help anyone else.

From Washington Post