tone policing

[tohn puh-lee-sing]

noun

1. a conversational tactic that dismisses the ideas being communicated when they are perceived to be delivered in an angry, frustrated, sad, fearful, or otherwise emotionally charged manner: Tone policing can silence the narratives of oppressed populations.

   It’s condescending to shut down an argument through tone policing.

   Tone policing can silence the narratives of oppressed populations.

Other Word Forms

• tone-police verb (used with object)
• tone police plural noun

Word History and Origins

Origin of tone policing¹

First recorded in 2015–20

Example Sentences

Hersey is a Black man, which makes this tone policing particularly egregious.

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Or maybe I’m just tone policing, being thin-skinned, defensive and deflective.

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Ms. Tlaib quickly responded with a tweet stating “House Democratic leadership should be ashamed of its relentless, exclusive tone policing of Congresswomen of color.”

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The episode, the latest dust-up between the House Democratic establishment and the progressive “Squad,” prompted Rep. Rashida Tlaib, Michigan Democrat, to tweet Thursday that “House Democratic leadership should be ashamed of its relentless, exclusive tone policing of Congresswomen of color.”

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“House Democratic leadership should be ashamed of its relentless, exclusive tone policing of Congresswomen of color.”

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