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unrequited

American  
[uhn-ri-kwahy-tid] / ˌʌn rɪˈkwaɪ tɪd /

adjective

  1. not returned or reciprocated.

    unrequited love.

  2. not avenged or retaliated.

    an unrequited wrong.

  3. not repaid or satisfied.


unrequited British  
/ ˌʌnrɪˈkwaɪtɪd /

adjective

  1. (of love, affection, etc) not reciprocated or returned

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of unrequited

First recorded in 1535–45; un- 1 + requite + -ed 2

Explanation

Unrequited is used almost exclusively in the context of romantic love. If you love someone and they don't love you back––that, my friend, is a case of unrequited love. Unrequited love is so painful, most people feel they are the first person in history to experience it, but the word unrequited has in fact been around since the 1520s, when it was invented, like many good words, to talk about money. It derived from re- 'back' + the Middle English quite 'pay up.'

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Eyes tear up when unrequited love leads to isolation or forbidden love leads to death.

From Salon Jul. 30, 2026

“I see it more as a situation of unrequited love,” said Alvin Velazquez, an associate law professor at Indiana University’s Maurer School of Law and an expert on Puerto Rico’s bankruptcy in 2017.

From Salon May 6, 2026

Before our interview, she plays me a new song called Deep End – a saga of unrequited love which, amongst other things, reveals she learned how to kiss from a YouTube video.

From BBC Apr. 28, 2026

This is something far more daffy and useless: The brouhaha over unrequited affections between Seattle Mariners at the World Baseball Classic.

From The Wall Street Journal Mar. 16, 2026

While Theo moved on from her rejection of him, she has been suffering from her own unrequited love.

From "Vincent and Theo: The Van Gogh Brothers" by Deborah Heiligman

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