noun
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a man whose occupation is to serve at table, as in a restaurant
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an attendant at the London Stock Exchange or Lloyd's who carries messages: the modern equivalent of waiters who performed these duties in the 17th-century London coffee houses in which these institutions originated
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a person who waits
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a tray or salver on which dishes, etc, are carried
Gender
See -person.
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Etymology
Origin of waiter
Middle English word dating back to 1350–1400; see origin at wait, -er 1
Explanation
The person who brings your food in a restaurant is a waiter. If you discover an insect in your gazpacho, you might call out, "Waiter! There's a fly in my soup!" These days it's more common to call the cafe worker who takes your order and delivers your nachos a server, since it's entirely gender-neutral, but some people still use waiter for a man or woman and waitress for a woman. Your grandpa might enjoy embarrassing the whole family by hollering, "Check please, waiter!" at the end of every restaurant meal. Before this word became common for restaurant servers, it was used for household servants who "waited at table."
Example Sentences
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Meanwhile Rocky had been out of work for a year before he joined Nando's as a waiter.
From BBC • May 27, 2026
Mougins, the waiter said, was a home for poets and artists that had endured for centuries.
From Salon • May 22, 2026
On restaurant outings I have pulled up a scene from the cinematic gem “Hoosiers” and gotten choked up while my kids prayed I wouldn’t still be blubbering when the waiter came.
From The Wall Street Journal • May 13, 2026
At a corner table on the expansive patio of a trendy Frogtown restaurant, Peaches’ blue eyes focus on the hovering waiter.
From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 19, 2026
“His remains have never been found,” the waiter adds in a whisper.
From "Across So Many Seas" by Ruth Behar
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