wheedle
Americanverb (used with object)
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to endeavor to influence (a person) by smooth, flattering, or beguiling words or acts.
We wheedled him incessantly, but he would not consent.
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to persuade (a person) by such words or acts.
She wheedled him into going with her.
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to obtain (something) by artful persuasions.
I wheedled a new car out of my father.
verb (used without object)
verb
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to persuade or try to persuade (someone) by coaxing words, flattery, etc
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(tr) to obtain by coaxing and flattery
she wheedled some money out of her father
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
Inflected Forms
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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wheedlesimple
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wheedlessimple
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have wheedledperfect
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has wheedledperfect
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am wheedlingprogressive
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are wheedlingprogressive
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is wheedlingprogressive
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have been wheedlingperfect progressive
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has been wheedlingperfect progressive
Past
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wheedledsimple
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had wheedledperfect
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was wheedlingprogressive
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were wheedlingprogressive
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had been wheedlingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of wheedle
First recorded in 1655–65; origin uncertain
Explanation
To wheedle is to sweet talk, or flatter someone in the hopes of getting something in return. You might try to wheedle a meter maid into not giving you a parking ticket. Good luck with that. If you want your parents to do something for you that they don’t want to do, you may have to wheedle them with breakfast in bed and a shower of compliments in order to get what you want. To wheedle someone is to “charm” that person, though it’s a little more on the “suck up to” side than it is charming. The teacher’s pet might try to wheedle her way into a better grade.
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Example Sentences
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A mosquito spots the eminent man and zooms over to wheedle in his ear, but Bashō remains immobile.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Oct. 9, 2025
Even as ex-mayor, it tickled Dick that he could wheedle an author into joining us.
From Los Angeles Times ● Apr. 23, 2023
The arsonists wheedle their way into his house with a combination of servile pleading, subtle bullying and appeals to Biedermann’s moral vanity.
From Seattle Times ● Dec. 14, 2022
The more other people sit stone-faced, the more I turn into a clown, trying to wheedle just little bit of encouraging energy back from them.
From Slate ● Feb. 26, 2022
He, Harry, had had too much experience of trying to wheedle information out of reluctant people not to recognize a master at work.
From "Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince" by J.K. Rowling
“Because of your big career that’s so much bigger than mine?” wheedles her petulant husband.
From Washington Post ● Apr. 20, 2022
“At least we tried to make a movie. They can’t judge us for that,” wheedles director Darren at the end of the film, incorrectly.
From Los Angeles Times ● Apr. 2, 2022
THE young woman with the microphone cajoles, hectors and wheedles customers with the breathless enthusiasm of a livestock auctioneer at a county fair.
From Economist ● Jul. 18, 2017
Wave your hands over and around two aerials emanating from a black box and hear all pitches of electronic wheedles.
From Seattle Times ● Jan. 26, 2017
But once in a while, Prim wheedles one out of me.
From "The Hunger Games" by Suzanne Collins
Ask any nerd who wheedled her parents for a little more cash to buy books: What you get from Scholastic is what your parents are willing to buy you.
From Salon ● Oct. 23, 2023
Equipped with two $4,000 trackers — which he’d wheedled a company into donating — Clerkin went out with a fishing captain who said he’d seen megamouths roaming.
From Washington Post ● Oct. 11, 2021
In 1855, Davis wheedled about $20,000 out of Congress, enough for a trip to the Mideast to buy 30-some camels and dromedaries and hire “cameleers.”
From Los Angeles Times ● Jul. 20, 2021
As someone who wheedled his grandmother into taking him to see Hitchcock’s “Frenzy” at age 13, I can both relate, and think I have him beat in the awkwardness department.
From New York Times ● Aug. 24, 2018
“I know everything, you see,” the old voice wheedled.
From "Grendel" by John Gardner
Scientists had not yet discovered vitamins, so families did not fret about dietary “balance,” and there seems to have been little or none of the parental wheedling common today.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Feb. 20, 2026
“Part Two” shows Durst wheedling his friends to do his bidding from behind bars and expecting nothing less than absolute allegiance.
From Salon ● Apr. 21, 2024
Yet Penn gives him a vivid, wheedling desperation that’s weirdly moving, and the younger Penn has clearly inherited the emotional expressiveness of her mother, Robin Wright.
From New York Times ● Aug. 19, 2021
Finally, bravo to Seattle Opera’s indispensable Jonathan Dean, who translates and writes the supertitles projected above the stage, for having one of the wheedling stepsisters calling her prey “Princykins.”
From Seattle Times ● Oct. 21, 2019
I was a little worried that the tinker might take offense at my wheedling, but instead he smiled a sly smile.
From "The Name of the Wind" by Patrick Rothfuss
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