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ambivalent

American  
[am-biv-uh-luhnt] / æmˈbɪv ə lənt /

adjective

  1. An image of the word ambivalent as defined by having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.

    having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.

    The whole family was ambivalent about the move to the suburbs.

    She is regarded as a morally ambivalent character in the play.

  2. Psychology. of or relating to the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


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Etymology

Origin of ambivalent

Back formation from ambivalence


Explanation

If you can't decide how you feel about something, declare yourself ambivalent about it. Ambivalent means "having mixed feelings about something." A Swiss psychologist named Eugen Bleuler coined the German word Ambivalenz in the early twentieth century, and it was soon imported into English. Bleuler combined the Latin prefix ambi-, meaning "both," with valentia, "strength." So etymologically speaking, if you're ambivalent you're being pulled by two equally strong things — but in practice, ambivalence often arises from caring very little either way. You might feel ambivalent about your lunch options if you have to choose between a murky stew and flavorless tofu.

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“I think great plays and great stories ask questions and don’t provide answers. And I think some of us are indifferent about AI, but I think most of us are ambivalent about AI.”

From Los Angeles Times ● Oct. 16, 2026

But he's slightly ambivalent on what a mayor would mean for Glasgow, insisting it all really depends on who the person is.

From BBC ● Jul. 31, 2026

Despite its fine leading performances, this time-hopping play by Benedict Lombe struggles to build momentum as it follows the ambivalent attraction between two characters.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 16, 2026

Most residents told AFP they were ambivalent about the plan, but most also believe the tigers will remain in an enclosure.

From Barron's ● Jul. 8, 2026

He had not always been so ambivalent about his home.

From "Snow Falling on Cedars: A Novel" by David Guterson

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