patronize

especially British, pa·tron·ise

[pey-truh-nahyz, pa‑]

verb (used with object)

patronized, patronizing 

1. to give (a store, restaurant, hotel, etc.) one's regular patronage; trade with.

2. to behave in an offensively condescending manner toward.

   a professor who patronizes his students.

3. to act as a patron toward (an artist, institution, etc.); support.

patronize

/ ˈpætrəˌnaɪz /

verb

1. to behave or treat in a condescending way

2. (tr) to act as a patron or patroness by sponsoring or bringing trade to

Other Word Forms

• patronizable adjective
• patronization noun
• patronizer noun
• repatronize verb (used with object)
• transpatronize verb (used with object)
• unpatronizable adjective
• well-patronized adjective

Word History and Origins

Origin of patronize¹

First recorded in 1580–90; patron + -ize

Example Sentences

His voice trembles on the line “Just hold me close, don’t patronize/Don’t patronize me.”

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The late Norman Lear, who produced “The Jeffersons” and “Good Times” alongside “Sanford,” sounds a little patronizing, or perhaps just defensive, on the subject of not using Black writers on his Black shows.

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If we want an art scene here, we have to patronize it.

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I’ve been thinking about the nightclubs our community used to frequent and the ones we patronize now.

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Azuka said it has resonated with audiences who she was keen not to "patronize".

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Related Words

• deign 
• snub 

When To Use

What does patronize mean?

To patronize is to be a customer (or patron) of a business or other establishment.In this sense, patronize most often means to be a paying customer, especially a regular one. However, you can patronize establishments that are not businesses—you can patronize a library, for example.Example: I patronize local shops and restaurants whenever I can in order to support people in my own community, instead of enriching faceless corporations.Patronize also means to act condescendingly toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that you’re being kind or helpful to that person. This often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Someone who acts in this way can be described as patronizing.Example: Don’t patronize me, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.