against the grain

Idioms  

1. Opposed to one's inclination or preference, as in We followed the new supervisor's advice, though it went against the grain. This metaphor refers to the natural direction of the fibers in a piece of wood, called its grain; when sawed obliquely, or “against the grain,” the wood will tend to splinter. [c. 1600] For a synonym, see rub the wrong way.

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Example Sentences

This advice goes against the grain of American culture and commerce lately, but many “roadies” agree that it’s crucial to getting the best of Route 66.

From Los Angeles Times • May 12, 2026

And going against the grain is finally paying off for the nation’s largest brokerage: Stellar first-quarter numbers across the board sent the stock soaring Wednesday.

From Barron's • May 6, 2026

Earlier this month, Poland’s central bank went against the grain.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 23, 2026

Sir Keir added that the decision to release prisoners early was difficult and "goes against the grain of everything I've ever done", referring to his former role as chief prosecutor.

From BBC • Aug. 27, 2024

I place one clammy palm against the grain of the door and push.

From "Love, Hate & Other Filters" by Samira Ahmed

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