against the grain

Idioms  

1. Opposed to one's inclination or preference, as in We followed the new supervisor's advice, though it went against the grain. This metaphor refers to the natural direction of the fibers in a piece of wood, called its grain; when sawed obliquely, or “against the grain,” the wood will tend to splinter. [c. 1600] For a synonym, see rub the wrong way.

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Example Sentences

“We’ve completely gone against the grain of the Silicon Valley bubble for self-driving and I think we might have been swallowed up if we were starting there.”

From The Wall Street Journal • Jun. 28, 2026

This advice goes against the grain of American culture and commerce lately, but many “roadies” agree that it’s crucial to getting the best of Route 66.

From Los Angeles Times • May 12, 2026

"It's because these films are so beautiful, so unique and so strong that they sometimes go against the grain," said Binoche.

From Barron's • Feb. 15, 2026

For someone who has always gone against the grain, and occasionally off the rails, it is hard to imagine what he could do now to diminish his status, however.

From BBC • Mar. 23, 2025

But still he never wished me good luck and that has always gone against the grain.

From "In Cold Blood" by Truman Capote

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