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ambivalence

American  
[am-biv-uh-luhns] / æmˈbɪv ə ləns /
Also ambivalency

noun

  1. uncertainty or fluctuation, especially when caused by inability to make a choice or by a simultaneous desire to say or do two opposite or conflicting things.

  2. Psychology. the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


ambivalence British  
/ æmˈbɪvələns /

noun

  1. the simultaneous existence of two opposed and conflicting attitudes, emotions, etc

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Other Word Forms

  • ambivalent adjective

Etymology

Origin of ambivalence

First recorded in 1910–15; ambi- + valence

Explanation

Someone who shows ambivalence about a person or thing has conflicting feelings. If you love your mom but find her totally embarrassing, you might feel ambivalent about having her give a presentation at your school. Originally a psychological term, ambivalence was borrowed from the German word Ambivalenz, coined in 1910 by the Swiss psychologist Eugen Bleuler. The German word was formed from the Latin prefix ambi- "in two ways" plus Latin valentia "vigor, strength."

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Nguyen captures the ambivalence and anxiety surrounding these decisions.

From Salon • Mar. 27, 2026

The subsequent track, Normal, is billed as "exploring the space between spotlight and silence" and expresses ambivalence about the cost of celebrity, with lyrics about surviving criticism and having to fake happiness for the cameras.

From BBC • Mar. 20, 2026

While shoppers had greeted him in his old delivery job with anticipation, now as a return worker they hand over packages with a measure of ambivalence and perhaps, relief.

From The Wall Street Journal • Dec. 31, 2025

Vegas happily feasted upon that ambivalence all night long.

From Slate • Nov. 18, 2025

It is doubtful that the other members agreed with that role; Compton was the only one who oversaw a lab where the scientists’ ambivalence was expressed openly.

From "Big Science" by Michael Hiltzik