ashamed
Americanadjective
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feeling shame; distressed or embarrassed by feelings of guilt, foolishness, or disgrace.
He felt ashamed for having spoken so cruelly.
- Antonyms:
- proud
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unwilling or restrained because of fear of shame, ridicule, or disapproval.
They were ashamed to show their work.
- Antonyms:
- proud
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Chiefly Midland U.S. (especially of children) bashful; timid.
adjective
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overcome with shame, guilt, or remorse
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(foll by of) suffering from feelings of inferiority or shame in relation to (a person, thing, or deed)
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(foll by to) unwilling through fear of humiliation, shame, etc
Related Words
Ashamed, humiliated, mortified refer to a condition or feeling of discomfort or embarrassment. Ashamed focuses on the sense of one's own responsibility for an act, whether it is foolish, improper, or immoral: He was ashamed of his dishonesty. She was ashamed of her mistake. Humiliated stresses a feeling of being humbled or disgraced, without any necessary implication of guilt: He was humiliated by the king. Both words are used equally in situations in which one is felt to be responsible for the actions of another: Robert felt humiliated by his daughter's behavior. Mom was ashamed of the way I looked. Mortified represents an intensification of the feelings implied by the other two words: She was mortified by her clumsiness.
Other Word Forms
- ashamedly adverb
- ashamedness noun
- half-ashamed adjective
- half-ashamedly adverb
Etymology
Origin of ashamed
First recorded before 1000; originally past participle of earlier ashame (verb) “to be ashamed,” Middle English, Old English āscamian, equivalent to ā- a prefix + scamian “to shame”; a- 3, shame
Example Sentences
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An online content creator who has a compulsive hair-pulling disorder says others with the condition "shouldn't be ashamed" or "feel embarrassed".
From BBC • Mar. 24, 2026
Sean Penn, Hollywood's eternal rebel, on Sunday won a third Oscar for his comic yet terrifying portrayal of an absurdly uptight soldier ashamed of his past in "One Battle After Another."
From Barron's • Mar. 16, 2026
“I feel ashamed and think about those other women all the time,” Pozhidaeva said.
From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 15, 2026
I miss a place that did not make me feel ashamed about my most outlandish yearnings and dreams.
From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 12, 2026
He was even more ashamed of the way he had treated his little relatives.
From "Ralph S. Mouse" by Beverly Cleary
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