couth
1 Americanadjective
noun
adjective
adjective
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facetious refined
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archaic familiar; known
Etymology
Origin of couth1
First recorded in 1895–1900; back formation from uncouth
Origin of couth2
First recorded before 1000; Middle English, Old English cūth, past participle of cunnan “to know”; see know 1, can 2, could
Explanation
Couth is an adjective that means "refined or well mannered," like a couth gentleman who stands every time a woman leaves or returns to the table at the fancy dinner — the poor guy got a workout! As a noun, couth means good manners, sophistication or politeness, like having the couth to hold the door — or hold your tongue if the conversation turns to touchy subjects like money, politics, religion, or a person's physical appearance. The opposite of couth is uncouth. Around such a person, expect doors to slam in faces and uncomfortable conversations about sensitive matters.
Example Sentences
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“I still like the venom and passion that was in a lot of the old songs, but there is a level of disrespect and lack of couth that sometimes I don’t dig,” Palumbo says.
From Los Angeles Times • Dec. 19, 2023
It used to be cute, though, to hear him compensate for his lack of polish and couth by using ridiculously florid language when a one-syllable response would do.
From Salon • May 15, 2023
What could possibly be less couth – less Wimbledon – than seeing off all-comers with attitude, personality and style?
From The Guardian • Jul. 11, 2021
It viciously took him to task for being cosmopolitan and having political couth.
From Washington Post • Aug. 17, 2017
Lapp said, “Gerald G., accept our humble apologies, also our lack of couth; we will kibbutz, I mean kibitz, on the action no longer, we promise to keep it down to your dull roar.”
From "The Milagro Beanfield War" by John Nichols
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