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diffidently

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[dif-i-duhnt-lee] / ˈdɪf ɪ dənt li /

adverb

  1. in a way that shows lack of confidence in one’s own ability, worth, or fitness; timidly or shyly.

    He saw her approaching rather diffidently, trying to summon up her courage, smiling an uncertain smile.

  2. in a restrained or reserved way.

    He got them to do the right thing not by scolding or nagging, but by calmly and diffidently laying out the logic of his position.


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Etymology

Origin of diffidently

diffident ( def. ) + -ly

Example Sentences

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“Well,” he began diffidently, “essentially I’m a writer.”

From The Wall Street Journal Dec. 26, 2025

Remarkable for a movie made entirely with nonactors, “Xiao Wu” thrives on extended scenes of personal interaction — Xiao Wu with his former friend, his parents, the police and, mainly, the diffidently wooed Mei-Mei.

From New York Times Jul. 21, 2021

Yes, we were responding to anonymous prompts, but we were looking, respectfully and diffidently, at a fellow human being.

From Los Angeles Times May 4, 2021

Manchester entered on its Victory in Europe rejoicings a little diffidently and the day was physically suited to the mood.

From The Guardian May 6, 2020

But she was silent beyond the spare questions and answers she asked and gave, and so Wang Lung stood diffidently on the edge of the circle and listened to the talk.

From "The Good Earth" by Pearl S. Buck

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