diffident
Americanadjective
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lacking confidence in one's own ability, worth, or fitness; timid; shy.
- Synonyms:
- unassuming, modest, abashed, self-conscious
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restrained or reserved in manner, conduct, etc.
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Archaic. distrustful.
adjective
Related Words
See shy 1.
Other Word Forms
- diffidence noun
- diffidently adverb
- diffidentness noun
- nondiffident adjective
- undiffident adjective
Etymology
Origin of diffident
First recorded in 1425–75; late Middle English, from Latin diffīdent- (stem of diffīdēns “mistrusting, despairing,” present participle of diffīdere ), equivalent to dif- dif- + fīd- “trust” + -ent- -ent
Example Sentences
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The slight turbo lag and diffident throttle behavior at low speed goes away.
From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 6, 2026
But the overarching tone, across the board, is oddly diffident.
From Slate • Apr. 25, 2025
Until now, Scott has been a largely diffident presence in the movies, having distinguished himself most prominently as a masterly TV foil: the Moriarty to Benedict Cumberbatch’s “Sherlock,” the “hot priest” to Phoebe Waller-Bridge’s “Fleabag.”
From Los Angeles Times • Dec. 20, 2023
Newey is a diffident, unassuming character for one of such extravagant gifts.
From BBC • Nov. 23, 2023
He could hear her panting now, her voice almost a wail of diffident yet iron determination: “I dont know what to do. I dont know what to do.”
From "Absalom, Absalom!" by William Faulkner
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