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emotional intelligence

American  
[ih-moh-shuh-nl in-tel-i-juhns] / ɪˈmoʊ ʃə nl ɪnˈtɛl ɪ dʒəns /

noun

Psychology.
  1. skill in perceiving, understanding, and managing emotions and feelings. EI


emotional intelligence British  

noun

  1. awareness of one's own emotions and moods and those of others, esp in managing people

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Etymology

Origin of emotional intelligence

First recorded in 1870–75