fraternize
Americanverb (used without object)
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to associate socially or romantically with people considered inappropriate company, often due to a difference in status, as between managers and subordinates, or professors and students.
Doctors fraternizing with interns is nothing new, but hospital management is considering stricter policies to discourage it.
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to associate cordially or intimately with the people of a conquered country, enemy troops, etc., especially in violation of orders or rules.
Of the charges these officers are facing, the most serious is fraternizing with the enemy.
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to associate in a fraternal or friendly way.
verb (used with object)
verb
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Conjugated Forms
Present
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fraternizesimple
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fraternizessimple
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have fraternizedperfect
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has fraternizedperfect
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am fraternizingprogressive
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are fraternizingprogressive
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is fraternizingprogressive
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have been fraternizingperfect progressive
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has been fraternizingperfect progressive
Past
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fraternizedsimple
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had fraternizedperfect
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was fraternizingprogressive
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were fraternizingprogressive
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had been fraternizingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of fraternize
First recorded in 1605–15; from French fraterniser, from Medieval Latin frāternizāre; see fraternal, -ize
Explanation
Guys, you may not realize it, but when you hang out with your buds, you fraternize; that is, you associate in a friendly fashion with other men as though they were your brothers. As your wives or girlfriends would be quick to tell you, there's an undercurrent of misbehavior to the term fraternize. At its most harmless, it means a kind of wild frat house behavior (frat or fraternity also coming from the Latin term fraternus, meaning "brotherly."). At its worst, there's an implication of illegality or skullduggery, as in the common phrase "fraternizing with the enemy." So party on, but don't be a traitor.
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Example Sentences
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But his choice to enthusiastically fraternize with a self-described misogynist facing dozens of horrific felony counts has exposed him to scrutiny.
From Salon ● Jul. 25, 2026
Behind the scenes, Chung, who often goes by “E.S.” in the West, also is known to fraternize comfortably with Hyundai staff, the company’s auto dealers and others.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Oct. 8, 2025
Delson makes an effort to create a safe space that encourages participants to ask questions, fraternize with others and leave their stress at home.
From Los Angeles Times ● Mar. 20, 2025
Superheroes-in-training are enrolled at Godolkin University School of Crimefighting, where they fraternize in between high-stakes competitions of strength and ability.
From Seattle Times ● Sep. 14, 2023
Because the all-day task of pushing buttons was boring, I was tempted to chitchat, but Miss Buckner’s warning not to fraternize with the patrons stayed fresh in my mind.
From "The Red Car to Hollywood" by Jennie Liu
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A multimillionaire entrepreneur fraternizes with a fish-tailed woman during a video shoot for an indie band.
From Washington Post ● Jan. 19, 2017
Wealth always fraternizes with wealth to a certain extent.
From The International Monthly, Volume 4, No. 1, August, 1851 by Various
The National Guard fraternizes with the populace; the Line fraternizes with the Guard.
From Edmond Dantès by Flagg, Edmund
See, even Duke fraternizes with the charming beasts!
From The Voyages and Adventures of Captain Hatteras by Riou, Edouard
In this olla podrida, where the Japanese elbows the Esquimaux, and the Australian shakes hands with the Turkish, where the Tamul fraternizes with the Hungarian, a place is carefully reserved for the Basque.
From Basque Legends With an Essay on the Basque Language by Webster, Wentworth
Commerce always fraternized with art and journalism in the magazine business, and Miranda needs to hear that this balance will stay if the magazine changes hands.
From Salon ● May 6, 2026
The former detective was fired in 2017 after an allegation was received that he had improperly paid a witness and had fraternized with people connected to criminal conduct.
From Washington Times ● Feb. 19, 2019
Xaysana’s case drew great attention when he was arrested last year because of unproven suspicions that some Thai celebrities with whom he fraternized were implicated in his activities.
From Seattle Times ● Sep. 26, 2018
The U.S. and Russia have cooperated and fraternized marvellously in space even as their leaders were antagonizing each other.
From New York Times ● Dec. 12, 2017
He talked of nothing any more but of syndicalists and bolsheviki; he had just made a discovery of them and he fraternized with them, as if he had known them from infancy.
From Pierre and Luce by Rolland, Romain
Conveniently, by making sure any against-the-spousal-grain decision is also a thoughtful one, you inoculate yourself against behavior that would be legitimately disloyal: fraternizing with an ex who did something inexcusable.
From Washington Post ● Dec. 30, 2022
Most companies discourage executives from fraternizing with staff too intimately because of the messy conflicts it can create.
From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 14, 2022
That’s where Frank Sinatra lost his gaming license for allegedly fraternizing with organized crime bosses at his Cal-Neva hotel-casino in the 1960s.
From Seattle Times ● May 12, 2022
Older generations of players would likely cringe at that — the Hall of Fame pitcher Bob Gibson famously hated fraternizing with rivals.
From New York Times ● Oct. 7, 2021
“Because someone’ll hear you been fraternizing with roustabouts and chuck you—or more likely these guys—off this thing,” he says.
From "Water for Elephants" by Sara Gruen
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