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governess

American  
[guhv-er-nis] / ˈgʌv ər nɪs /

noun

  1. a woman who is employed to take charge of a child's upbringing, education, etc.

  2. Archaic. a woman who is a ruler or governor.


governess British  
/ ˈɡʌvənɪs /

noun

  1. a woman teacher employed in a private household to teach and train the children

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Gender

See -ess.

Other Word Forms

  • governessy adjective
  • subgoverness noun
  • undergoverness noun

Etymology

Origin of governess

1400–50; late Middle English governeress < Old French gouverneresse, feminine of gouverneur governor; see -ess

Explanation

If you had grown up in a very wealthy 19th-century family, instead of going to school you might have been taught by a governess, a teacher who lived in your home. Not many people employ governesses these days — the exceptions are generally members of royal families. So unless you're a prince or princess, you probably attended elementary school rather than having a governess teach you reading, writing, and etiquette at home. In well-off Victorian families, unmarried, well-educated, middle-class women were paid to teach young children the basics. Older boys then moved on to male tutors, while girls usually focused on music and art lessons.

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When Elizabeth saw the manuscript, she wrote to a friend that “the governess has gone off her head.”

From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 4, 2026

Fortunes changed in 1894 when he appointed his children's governess, Rita Shell, to be editor.

From BBC • Apr. 15, 2025

Winifred Notty arrives at Ensor House as a governess with a secret, which would be enough for many a novel set in Victorian England.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 1, 2025

Follow along as Maria serves as governess for the seven children of the stern Captain, bringing music to their lives in the form of timeless songs like “Climb Ev’ry Mountain,” “Do Re Mi” and “Edelweiss.”

From Seattle Times • May 25, 2023

“Quite sure. Be brave and be true, be the best governess you can be, and give the future a chance to rewrite itself accordingly.”

From "The Hidden Gallery" by Maryrose Wood