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patronize

American  
[pey-truh-nahyz, pa‑] / ˈpeɪ trəˌnaɪz, ˈpæ‑ /
especially British, patronise

verb (used with object)

patronized, patronizing
  1. to give (a store, restaurant, hotel, etc.) one's regular patronage; trade with.

  2. to behave in an offensively condescending manner toward.

    a professor who patronizes his students.

  3. to act as a patron toward (an artist, institution, etc.); support.


patronize British  
/ ˈpætrəˌnaɪz /

verb

  1. to behave or treat in a condescending way

  2. (tr) to act as a patron or patroness by sponsoring or bringing trade to

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does patronize mean? To patronize is to be a customer (or patron) of a business or other establishment. In this sense, patronize most often means to be a paying customer, especially a regular one. However, you can patronize establishments that are not businesses—you can patronize a library, for example. Example: I patronize local shops and restaurants whenever I can in order to support people in my own community, instead of enriching faceless corporations. Patronize also means to act condescendingly toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that you’re being kind or helpful to that person. This often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Someone who acts in this way can be described as patronizing. Example: Don’t patronize me, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.

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Etymology

Origin of patronize

First recorded in 1580–90; patron + -ize

Explanation

If you patronize a business, you shop there regularly. But if someone patronizes you, it's not so pleasant — they talk to you as if you were inferior or not very intelligent. Patronize comes from Latin patronus "protector, master," related to pater "father." So if you patronize a person, you talk down to them like a father might do to his child or a master to his apprentice. If you want to take an advanced class and your advisor warns you of all the hard work, you can tell him to stop patronizing you — you know a hard class involves hard work. This sounds much better than saying, "I'm not stupid!"

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Patronize them when you can and remember to wear a mask when you do.

From Washington Post • Jun. 30, 2020

Patronize establishments like Schnipper’s, which has offered to donate $1 from every chicken filet sandwich it sells this month to Marriage Equality USA.

From Salon • Aug. 1, 2012

Patronize big stores where prices are plainly marked.

From Time Magazine Archive

His small-town merchant advice: "Patronize your local art exhibitions."

From Time Magazine Archive

Cooper, J. Fennimore—his Encouragement of Greenough, i, 66; his Letter to Induce his Countrymen to Patronize their own Artists, i, 67.

From Anecdotes of Painters, Engravers, Sculptors and Architects and Curiosities of Art (Vol. 3 of 3) by Spooner, Shearjashub

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