put-upon
Americanadjective
verb
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to presume on (a person's generosity, good nature, etc); take advantage of
he's always being put upon
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to impose hardship on; maltreat
Etymology
Origin of put-upon
First recorded in 1915–20
Example Sentences
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Not, of course, that poor, put-upon Catherine, who spent most of her married life being pregnant, is the only victim.
From The Wall Street Journal • May 1, 2026
He’s as put-upon as the rest of us.
From Salon • May 24, 2025
Taking these roles together, especially “Friendship” and “The Dutchman,” in one of them you’re this put-upon wife and the other one you’re this whirlwind, demonic vixen.
From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 7, 2025
We felt ourselves to be put-upon entry-level hirelings right when “The Devil Wears Prada” came out in 2006.
From New York Times • May 2, 2024
Unable to work either the dishwater or Methuselah’s long memory into a proper ending for his parable, Our Father merely looked at us all and heaved the great sigh of the put-upon male.
From "The Poisonwood Bible" by Barbara Kingsolver
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