reconcile

[rek-uhn-sahyl]

verb (used with object)

reconciled, reconciling 

1. to cause (a person) to accept or be resigned to something not desired.

   He was reconciled to his fate.

2. to win over to friendliness; cause to become amicable.

   to reconcile hostile persons.

   Synonyms: placate, propitiate, pacify

3. to compose or settle (a quarrel, dispute, etc.).

   Antonyms: anger

4. to bring into agreement or harmony; make compatible or consistent.

   to reconcile differing statements;

   to reconcile accounts.

   Synonyms: harmonize

5. to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, cemetery, etc.).

6. to restore (an excommunicate or penitent) to communion in a church.

verb (used without object)

reconciled, reconciling 

1. to become reconciled.

reconcile

/ ˈrɛkənˌsaɪl, -trɪ, ˌrɛkənˌsɪlɪˈeɪʃən, ˌrɛkənˈsɪlɪətərɪ /

verb

1. to make (oneself or another) no longer opposed; cause to acquiesce in something unpleasant

   she reconciled herself to poverty

2. to become friendly with (someone) after estrangement or to re-establish friendly relations between (two or more people)

3. to settle (a quarrel or difference)

4. to make (two apparently conflicting things) compatible or consistent with each other

5. to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, etc)

Other Word Forms

• reconcilement noun
• reconciler noun
• reconcilingly adverb
• prereconcile verb (used with object)
• prereconcilement noun
• quasi-reconciled adjective
• unreconciled adjective
• unreconciling adjective
• reconciliatory adjective
• reconciliation noun

Word History and Origins

Origin of reconcile¹

First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English reconcilen, from Latin reconciliāre “to make good again, repair,” equivalent to re- re- + conciliāre “to bring together” ( conciliate )

Word History and Origins

Origin of reconcile¹

C14: from Latin reconciliāre to bring together again, from _re- + conciliāre to make friendly, _conciliate

Example Sentences

The BBC understands the couple reconciled and married later that year and are understood to have had a young child together.

From BBC

Moody finds it hard to reconcile that he is now part of the match's cause, rather than a supporter.

From BBC

Then it doesn’t, and we’re left trying to reconcile a legitimately gripping tale of one family’s ordeal with what we know about the suffering that’s occurred during the two years of war since.

From Los Angeles Times

The BBC understands the couple reconciled and married later that year.

From BBC

Prince Harry has previously expressed his desire to reconcile with his family after years of media appearances, a memoir and a Netflix documentary that have caused further strain and speculation.

From BBC

Related Words

• accommodate 
• appease 
• assuage 
• conform 
• coordinate 
• harmonize 
• integrate 
• pacify 
• placate 
• rectify 
• resolve 
• reunite 

When To Use

What does reconcile mean?

Reconcile means to make amends, come to a truce, or settle a dispute.Reconcile can also mean to make things compatible or consistent with each other. This sense of the word is especially used when discussing two things that cannot be reconciled, such as two contrasting beliefs.Another sense of the word means to cause to accept a negative situation or become resigned to it, as in I am reconciled to my fate of never being able to afford my dream house. The noun form of reconcile is reconciliation, which refers to the process of reconciling. It’s also the name of a Catholic sacrament involving the confession of sin.Example: After years of not speaking to each other, the two finally sat down and reconciled.