put-upon
Americanadjective
verb
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to presume on (a person's generosity, good nature, etc); take advantage of
he's always being put upon
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to impose hardship on; maltreat
Etymology
Origin of put-upon
First recorded in 1915–20
Example Sentences
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Not, of course, that poor, put-upon Catherine, who spent most of her married life being pregnant, is the only victim.
From The Wall Street Journal ● May 1, 2026
He’s as put-upon as the rest of us.
From Salon ● May 24, 2025
Alexandre and Yelena’s arrival at the country estate managed by Vanya and Sonya, the professor’s put-upon daughter, has thrown the household into chaos.
From Los Angeles Times ● Mar. 19, 2025
Downs also stars as Jimmy, Ava and Deborah’s put-upon manager.
From New York Times ● May 31, 2024
Unable to work either the dishwater or Methuselah’s long memory into a proper ending for his parable, Our Father merely looked at us all and heaved the great sigh of the put-upon male.
From "The Poisonwood Bible" by Barbara Kingsolver
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“I think the more pressure that’s put upon them to improve the condition of the vessels, to raise compliance with international law and convention makes a big difference,” Barata said.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jun. 15, 2026
I want to emphasize the pressure that was put upon me as a new mom to take pain medication after I refused several times.
From Slate ● Jan. 11, 2026
And the condition really is such that the censorship and all the pressure put upon artists is always tied together with the work and the stories they tell.
From Los Angeles Times ● Dec. 5, 2024
“We may forget or feel put upon by our responsibilities but we remain whole inside with memories of freedom to express without consequence. We don’t become other people as we age.”
From Salon ● May 27, 2024
“Then if you aren’t sick what favorable construction can you put upon your behavior? Any excuse for it?”
From "Go Set a Watchman: A Novel" by Harper Lee
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