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soften

American  
[saw-fuhn, sof-uhn] / ˈsɔ fən, ˈsɒf ən /

verb (used with object)

  • softens,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • softened,
    past participle,  past
  • softening
    present participle
  1. to make soft or softer.

    Synonyms:
    ease, quiet, calm, alleviate, soothe, mitigate, mollify, melt
    Antonyms:
    harden

verb (used without object)

  • softens,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • softened,
    past participle,  past
  • softening
    present participle
  1. to become soft or softer.

    Antonyms:
    harden
soften British  
/ ˈsɒfən /

verb

  1. to make or become soft or softer

  2. to make or become gentler

  3. (intr) commerce

    1. (of demand, a market, etc) to weaken

    2. (of a price) to fall

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of soften

Middle English word dating back to 1325–75; see origin at soft, -en 1

Explanation

To soften is to make something soft, or to become soft. A stick of butter will soften after sitting on the counter for an hour—or you can soften it by squishing it with a wooden spoon. You can literally soften things, the way a sculptor softens clay or you soften the skin on your hands with lotion. Turning down the sound is another way to soften something: "I'll soften the radio so it doesn't keep you awake." When you make something gentler or less severe, you also soften it, like when a lawmaker tries to soften the effect of a law by proposing a tax cut in return.

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That kind of thought will soften your edges.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 27, 2026

Studies show that when you put all three together, he noted, the extremes tend to soften.

From Slate Aug. 26, 2026

This is not the first time lawmakers have tried to soften the rule.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 14, 2026

He gives her novels to soften the blow, as she loves to read.

From Barron's Aug. 11, 2026

Portia spoke in a low voice, and she neither paused between words nor did the grief in her face soften.

From "The Heart is a Lonely Hunter" by Carson McCullers

Muenster is less assertive but more accommodating: its mild butteriness stands beside the sauce without competing, and it softens agreeably in summer warmth without becoming stringy or oily.

From Salon Jul. 30, 2026

Buying equity stakes rather than owning depreciating fleets softens that, but the line between “demand layer” and “co-investor in hardware” thins with each deal.

From MarketWatch Jun. 24, 2026

The additives lower the temperature at which the glass softens and make it flow more easily when heated, which could simplify manufacturing.

From Science Daily May 22, 2026

“No other region relies as heavily on international visitation, so when global travel softens, L.A. feels it first and most acutely.”

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 25, 2026

Then he glances at Ayesha, and his face softens.

From "Internment" by Samira Ahmed

As consumer demand softened, the industry tried to right itself again, and by late 2025 and early 2026, it seemed that the end of the slump was finally in sight.

From MarketWatch Aug. 28, 2026

And though Fred had wanted his son to pursue an education, he softened his stance, supporting Freddie’s dream.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 25, 2026

Rather than fully melting the metals, both methods softened them enough to form and deposit the cemented carbide.

From Science Daily Aug. 4, 2026

Consumer confidence declined in July as consumers’ assessment of current business and labor-market conditions softened for a third straight month, a monthly survey from The Conference Board said.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 28, 2026

His eyes moved to Gum Baby and softened, then to Thandiwe and High John, where they lingered.

From "Tristan Strong Punches a Hole in the Sky" by Kwame Mbalia

She did this countless times across her decades of unwavering support for the queer community, softening and sharpening her humor according to the severity of whatever topic she waded into.

From Salon Aug. 28, 2026

Indeed, according to well-placed sources there has been a slight softening of Alvarez's stance in recent days, although not enough yet to get anyone at Arsenal excited.

From BBC Aug. 24, 2026

July government retail-sales data showed a softening overall, though some of that softness was likely caused by one-time events like the switch of Amazon.com and other retailer’s summer online-sales events to June.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 20, 2026

Since the pandemic recovery, the unemployment rate for recent college graduates ages 22 to 27 has been elevated compared with the rate overall, pointing to softening demand for educated entry-level workers.

From MarketWatch Aug. 19, 2026

“No,” Tsukiko says with a polite shake of her head, her smile softening the harshness of the word.

From "The Night Circus" by Erin Morgenstern

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