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soften

American  
[saw-fuhn, sof-uhn] / ˈsɔ fən, ˈsɒf ən /

verb (used with object)

  1. to make soft or softer.

    Synonyms:
    ease, quiet, calm, alleviate, soothe, mitigate, mollify, melt
    Antonyms:
    harden

verb (used without object)

  1. to become soft or softer.

    Antonyms:
    harden
soften British  
/ ˈsɒfən /

verb

  1. to make or become soft or softer

  2. to make or become gentler

  3. (intr) commerce

    1. (of demand, a market, etc) to weaken

    2. (of a price) to fall

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Other Word Forms

  • oversoften verb
  • resoften verb
  • unsoftening adjective

Etymology

Origin of soften

Middle English word dating back to 1325–75; soft, -en 1

Explanation

To soften is to make something soft, or to become soft. A stick of butter will soften after sitting on the counter for an hour—or you can soften it by squishing it with a wooden spoon. You can literally soften things, the way a sculptor softens clay or you soften the skin on your hands with lotion. Turning down the sound is another way to soften something: "I'll soften the radio so it doesn't keep you awake." When you make something gentler or less severe, you also soften it, like when a lawmaker tries to soften the effect of a law by proposing a tax cut in return.

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These included suspending duties on all imports with the exception of those from Russia and Belarus and adjusting the carbon border tax to soften its impact, she said.

From Barron's • Apr. 3, 2026

Drop in quick-cooking noodles and let them soften directly in the soup.

From Salon • Apr. 3, 2026

The International Energy Agency is currently assessing whether tapping reserves of oil further is needed to soften the blow from spiking prices.

From MarketWatch • Apr. 1, 2026

For now, fiscal policy is shouldering some of the weight, with governments across Asia resorting to measures like fuel subsidies and price caps to soften the blow to consumers.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 20, 2026

His eyes don’t grow any harsher, but they don’t quite soften either.

From "Kwame Crashes the Underworld" by Craig Kofi Farmer