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surly

American  
[sur-lee] / ˈsɜr li /

adjective

surlier, surliest
  1. churlishly rude or bad-tempered.

    a surly waiter.

    Synonyms:
    crabby, grouchy, grumpy, cross, choleric, splenetic, irascible, brusque, uncivil, sullen
  2. unfriendly or hostile; menacingly irritable.

    a surly old lion.

    Synonyms:
    malevolent, threatening
  3. dark or dismal; menacing; threatening.

    a surly sky.

    Synonyms:
    ominous
  4. Obsolete. lordly; arrogant.


surly British  
/ ˈsɜːlɪ /

adjective

  1. sullenly ill-tempered or rude

  2. (of an animal) ill-tempered or refractory

  3. dismal

  4. obsolete arrogant

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

See glum.

Other Word Forms

Etymology

Origin of surly

First recorded in 1560–70; spelling variant of obsolete sirly “lordly, arrogant,” equivalent to sir + -ly

Explanation

Surly describes behavior nobody wants to be around. Think of the irritable old guy who lives on your street and always seems to be simmering with some sullen nasty anger, whose every utterance he spits out with a rude snarl. He's the poster boy for surly. Surly behavior is always frowned upon, but the word's origins are in the behavior of English nobility. Surly's roots are in sirly, as in sir, meaning arrogant, haughty, and superior. Its current meaning implies all that and more, none of it appealing — rude, snotty, sullen, mean and cranky can be added to the list. Generally speaking, if you find yourself in a surly mood, avoid your friends and loved ones.

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The Jordan that the audience gets to know is a bit surly and self-centered.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 17, 2026

It’s not hard to see why Platner is so surly in his 11-minute Wednesday video announcing that he would end his campaign.

From Slate Jul. 11, 2026

The presence of the surly uncle, insufferable in-law, or grating girlfriend at the holiday table can make it hard to truly count one’s blessings.

From The Wall Street Journal Nov. 21, 2025

I recommend having a ‘go box’ for when you slip these surly bonds of earth.

From MarketWatch Nov. 20, 2025

From the very beginning she was surly with me, and she didn’t have to worry about getting over any Electra complex, because she never had one.

From "The House of the Spirits: A Novel" by Isabel Allende

He was a surly, proud character who only got surlier and prouder in his old age.

From Slate Feb. 10, 2020

As you enjoy your coq au vin this summer in a quaint Parisian bistro, you may find the staff even surlier than usual.

From Slate Jul. 24, 2014

After another pricey ride with an even surlier cab driver, our first night at Book Expo was drawing to a close.

From Time May 30, 2013

“He’s basically a surlier version of myself,” Mr. Elliott said.

From New York Times Jan. 30, 2011

So his take-home pay was getting smaller, and his mother, in turn, was getting surlier.

From "A Confederacy of Dunces" by John Kennedy Toole

The other is the latest, and perhaps surliest, entry in the crowded field of shows about teens trying to fit in.

From Los Angeles Times May 26, 2021

Unsurprisingly, the surliest one turns out to be Willow’s mom.

From Washington Post Apr. 10, 2019

To be fair, the surliest cities also tend to be the biggest and most fast-paced, which may give visitors an air of indifference—whether it’s intentional or not.

From Time Aug. 13, 2015

At the end of the Kettleman’s story arc, the great Jonathan Banks gets to do something besides be the world’s surliest parking attendant.

From Forbes Feb. 17, 2015

Old Tiney, surliest of his kind, Who, nurs'd with tender care, And to domestic bounds confined, Was still a wild Jack-hare.

From The Children's Garland from the Best Poets by Coventry Kersey Dighton Patmore

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