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ambivalence

American  
[am-biv-uh-luhns] / æmˈbɪv ə ləns /
Also ambivalency

noun

  1. uncertainty or fluctuation, especially when caused by inability to make a choice or by a simultaneous desire to say or do two opposite or conflicting things.

  2. Psychology. the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


ambivalence British  
/ æmˈbɪvələns /

noun

  1. the simultaneous existence of two opposed and conflicting attitudes, emotions, etc

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Etymology

Origin of ambivalence

First recorded in 1910–15; ambi- + valence

Explanation

Someone who shows ambivalence about a person or thing has conflicting feelings. If you love your mom but find her totally embarrassing, you might feel ambivalent about having her give a presentation at your school. Originally a psychological term, ambivalence was borrowed from the German word Ambivalenz, coined in 1910 by the Swiss psychologist Eugen Bleuler. The German word was formed from the Latin prefix ambi- "in two ways" plus Latin valentia "vigor, strength."

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The ambivalence among advisers’ views may help explain why they do not appear to have much impact on their clients.

From MarketWatch Jul. 27, 2026

Tournaments once so defined now blur into adulthood ambivalence, postcards plotted along the timeline of your life, the details growing grainy.

From BBC Jun. 21, 2026

Yet Mr. Talty does not ignore his heroes’ ambivalence.

From The Wall Street Journal May 31, 2026

When asked if he sees himself as Ruben, Gadd contemplates the question, debating whether it’s his “jetlagged brain” or ambivalence about finding some of Ruben within him.

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 23, 2026

That ambivalence turned to remorse soon after he shot the moose.

From "Into the Wild" by Jon Krakauer

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