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deferential

American  
[def-uh-ren-shuhl] / ˌdɛf əˈrɛn ʃəl /

adjective

  1. showing deference; deferent; respectful.

    Synonyms:
    reverential, obedient, dutiful, regardful, courteous

deferential British  
/ ˌdɛfəˈrɛnʃəl /

adjective

  1. marked by or showing deference or respect; respectful

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Etymology

Origin of deferential

1815–25; after deference, by analogy with such pairs as residence: residential

Explanation

When a young person shows respect and obedience to an older person, they’re being deferential to the elder’s wisdom and experience. To be obedient, courteous, or dutiful are all ways of being deferential. Bowing low to the Queen is a deferential act when visiting Buckingham Palace. On sports teams, rookies are usually deferential to the veterans and star players, while all players should be deferential to the coach. All employees are expected to be at least a little deferential to their bosses. Being deferential shows respect, but also means "I know my place, and it's lower than yours."

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Deferential as he was to the stars when it came to playing ability, Jacobs was assertive when it came to teaching.

From Golf Digest • Jan. 16, 2017

James spent the earlier part of this tournament in the role of Mr. Deferential.

From New York Times • Aug. 4, 2012

Deferential to law-and-order needs, the court was usually thought of as reluctant to tackle large issues, preferring to leave more decision-making to legislatures and local courts.

From Time Magazine Archive

Deferential and eager to please, Quayle is more likely to be the kind of No. 2 Bush was and yearns to clone now: blindly loyal and deeply grateful.

From Time Magazine Archive

Instead, he turns into Deferential Store Owner like I’ve seen him do a million times to a million customers.

From "The Sun Is Also a Star" by Nicola Yoon