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cajole

American  
[kuh-johl] / kəˈdʒoʊl /

verb (used with or without object)

  • cajoles,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • cajoled,
    past participle,  past
  • cajoling
    present participle
  1. An image of the word cajole as defined by to persuade by flattery or promises; wheedle; coax.

    to persuade by flattery or promises; wheedle; coax.


cajole British  
/ kəˈdʒəʊl /

verb

  1. to persuade (someone) by flattery or pleasing talk to do what one wants; wheedle; coax

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of cajole

1635–45; < French cajoler to cajole or chatter like a jaybird, apparently derivative of *cajole birdcage (< Late Latin caveola < Latin cave ( a ) cage + -ola -ole 1 ( def. ) ) + -er infinitive suffix


Explanation

To cajole someone is to persuade them by using insincere compliments or promises. If you say "Please, pretty-please, I'll be your best friend," when asking for a stick of gum, you are cajoling the gum holder. The origin of this word is probably a blend of two French words meaning "to chatter like a jaybird" and "to lure into a cage." When you cajole that guy into lending you some money, picture him as the bird going into the cage. In fact, the word cajole may be associated with another French word meaning "to put in jail."

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It is possible the campaign could cajole China into doing more to pressure Iran, while avoiding a more direct confrontation between the world’s biggest economies.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Aug. 25, 2026

Belgium's outspoken prime minister Bart De Wever will be in the spotlight as his EU counterparts -- most of whom back the plan -- try to cajole him to accept.

From Barron's ● Dec. 18, 2025

My mother did her best to cajole me into going.

From MarketWatch ● Nov. 27, 2025

He will be expected to charm and cajole the incoming administration at a potentially very delicate time for US/UK relations.

From BBC ● Dec. 20, 2024

Kim who must have somehow managed to cajole her mother into driving downtown.

From "If I Stay" by Gayle Forman

It’s in one of these quiet moments that Timble gently cajoles Orris in the way only a good friend can.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 16, 2026

He rallies Ukrainians, calls attention to atrocities, thanks supporters and cajoles allies for aid.

From New York Times ● Dec. 31, 2022

He cajoles the new love of his life Molly to become his sidekick and go to the big city to find riches by performing a psychic act.

From Washington Times ● Apr. 1, 2022

Running around town in his tennis-coach regalia of short shorts and knee-high socks, Richard cajoles, insists, argues and refuses to take no for an answer.

From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 18, 2021

This nearly cajoles me into thinking I should also know what Marv needs with the money.

From "I Am the Messenger" by Markus Zusak

She advised a customer about treating a bug bite, helped a man wire money and cajoled a city worker about getting a sidewalk repair.

From Los Angeles Times ● Sep. 13, 2026

When that failed, it cajoled and persuaded many of its allies to join in a coalition of the willing.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Mar. 3, 2026

But Huntley refused to be pictured, would not be cajoled and got quite angry.

From BBC ● Mar. 1, 2026

No one should be cajoled into paying for a property that they never use and no longer wish to own.

From MarketWatch ● Feb. 5, 2026

I was asked, cajoled, then ordered to care for my room.

From "I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings" by Maya Angelou

“No amount of cajoling or liens will scare” the other owners who don’t pay, the former U.S.

From MarketWatch ● Sep. 18, 2026

But the leak did reveal commercially sensitive information, including Anthropic’s proprietary techniques, tools and instructions for cajoling its AI models to work as coding agents.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 1, 2026

A Fed chair can’t change the world on his own; cajoling other Fed officials to back his views requires credibility, among other factors.

From Barron's ● Dec. 11, 2025

So the amount of damage control and cajoling it will take to keep things on track after the disaster in Arizona is enough to make a good fire advocate’s head spin.

From Los Angeles Times ● Aug. 24, 2025

After a lot of hustling and cajoling, Kate got Constance moving, then quick-stepped it to the cafeteria with the smaller girl riding piggyback.

From "The Mysterious Benedict Society" by Trenton Lee Stewart

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