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cajole

American  
[kuh-johl] / kəˈdʒoʊl /

verb (used with or without object)

cajoled, cajoling
  1. to persuade by flattery or promises; wheedle; coax.


cajole British  
/ kəˈdʒəʊl /

verb

  1. to persuade (someone) by flattery or pleasing talk to do what one wants; wheedle; coax

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Etymology

Origin of cajole

1635–45; < French cajoler to cajole or chatter like a jaybird, apparently derivative of *cajole birdcage (< Late Latin caveola < Latin cave ( a ) cage + -ola -ole 1 ( def. ) ) + -er infinitive suffix

Explanation

To cajole someone is to persuade them by using insincere compliments or promises. If you say "Please, pretty-please, I'll be your best friend," when asking for a stick of gum, you are cajoling the gum holder. The origin of this word is probably a blend of two French words meaning "to chatter like a jaybird" and "to lure into a cage." When you cajole that guy into lending you some money, picture him as the bird going into the cage. In fact, the word cajole may be associated with another French word meaning "to put in jail."

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Cajole one of them into signing up for the app, and you get cash — up to $130 per person — to spend on Flip.

From Los Angeles Times • Dec. 21, 2023

Cajole, ka-jōl′, v.t. to coax: to cheat by flattery.—ns.

From Chambers's Twentieth Century Dictionary (part 1 of 4: A-D) by Various

Cajole him by agreeing with him, but don't get into a quarrel with Kibei.

From The Yotsuya Kwaidan or O'Iwa Inari Tales of the Tokugawa, Volume 1 (of 2) by De Benneville, James S. (James Seguin)

Cajole and decoy carry the idea of deceiving and ensnaring.

From English Synonyms and Antonyms With Notes on the Correct Use of Prepositions by Fernald, James Champlin