dare

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[ dair ]

verb (used without object)

dared or (Archaic) durst [durst];present singular 3rd person: dares or daredaringdared

1. to have the necessary courage or boldness for something; be bold enough:

   You wouldn't dare!

verb (used with object)

daringpresent singular 3rd person: dares or daredareddared or (Archaic) durst [durst];

1. to have the boldness to try; venture; hazard.

   Synonyms: brave

2. to meet defiantly; face courageously:

   They dared the waves of the North Atlantic.

3. to challenge or provoke (a person) into a demonstration of courage; defy:

   We dared him to show up at school dressed that way.

auxiliary verb

1. to have the necessary courage or boldness to (used chiefly in questions and negatives): He dare not mention the subject again.

   How dare you speak to me like that?

   He dare not mention the subject again.

noun

1. a challenge or provocation posed to someone to test their boldness or courage:

   I accepted the dare.

2. an action proposed to someone as a challenge or test of boldness or courage: She knew it was going to be a humiliating dare.

   Will he be able to complete the dare?

   She knew it was going to be a humiliating dare.

verb phrase

1. daresay ( def ).

Dare

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[ dair ]

noun

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dare

/ dɛə /

verb

1. tr to challenge (a person to do something) as proof of courage
2. can take an infinitive with or without to to be courageous enough to try (to do something)

   she dares to dress differently from the others

   you wouldn't dare!

3. rare.
   tr to oppose without fear; defy
4. I dare say or I daresay
   1. (it is) quite possible (that)
   2. probably: used as sentence substitute

noun

1. a challenge to do something as proof of courage
2. something done in response to such a challenge

Usage

When used negatively or interrogatively, dare does not usually add -s: he dare not come; dare she come? When used negatively in the past tense, however, dare usually adds -d: he dared not come

Derived Forms

• ˈdarer, noun

Other Words From

• dar·er noun
• re·dare verb (used with object) redared redaring
• un·dared adjective

Word History and Origins

Origin of dare¹

First recorded before 900; Middle English dar (verb), Old English dear(r), 1st and 3rd person singular present indicative of durran; akin to Old High German gitarran

Word History and Origins

Origin of dare¹

Old English durran ; related to Old High German turran to venture

Idioms and Phrases

Idioms

1. on a dare, in response to being challenged to attempt something dangerous or bold:

   She scaled the wall on a dare.

Synonym Study

Dare, venture imply involvement in risks and dangers. Dare emphasizes the state of mind that makes one willing to meet danger: He dared to do what he knew was right. Venture emphasizes the act of doing something that involves risk: He ventured into deep water.

Example Sentences

The man who removed the dolphin from the Indus River that Jabbar and his colleagues were trying to save told a judge he was responding to an impromptu dare by a friend.

From Ozy

In defiance, I held my ticket above my head, which triggered the spitting and chants of “How Dare You!”

From The Daily Beast

Despite the 21 years I did in prison for a drug conviction, I am assimilating back into mainstream or, dare I say, white America.

From The Daily Beast

We feel their strangeness when we read their words—they lived on a plane where few dare to tread.

From The Daily Beast

While it may not leave you with many profound truths, I dare you not to fall in love.

From The Daily Beast

He adds: “None of the fighters will dare touch it, if an emir has given permission.”

From The Daily Beast

None other would dare to show herself unveiled to a stranger, and a white man at that.

From Project Gutenberg

I never dare venture over except as the guest of some more fortunate friend.

From Project Gutenberg

I do not know—I do not dare to believe—that I shall live to hear that key grating in the lock.

From Project Gutenberg

She would not dare to choose, and begged that Mademoiselle Reisz would please herself in her selections.

From Project Gutenberg

For accurate work the best instruments are the von Fleischl-Miescher and the Dare.

From Project Gutenberg

Related Words

• insult
• oppose
• provoke
• resist
• taunt
• threaten

More About Dare

What does dare mean?

While the word dare is used widely and variously for bold behavior, a dare popularly refers to a silly or risky challenge a person is compelled to do as part of children’s games.

What are some other forms of dare?

double dare

What are some other words related to dare?

• truth or dare
• game on

Where does dare come from?

The word dare generally means “to have the courage or boldness for something.” It can be positive (She dared to venture into outer space) or negative (Don’t you dare eat the last cookie!)

The verb dare is found in Old English, with the noun form, a “challenge” or “defiance,” coming in the 1500s.

Children popularly egg each other on to do a dare—or more tauntingly, the double dare. This is when a friend urges another to do something slightly dangerous or humiliating, sometimes as a prank (e.g., I dare you to ding-dong-ditch the neighbor’s house). Your friend doesn’t want to do it? Then double-dog dare them. This pastime inspired the 1980–90s Nickelodeon show Double Dare involving trivia and slimy, physical challenges.

And then there’s the game truth or dare, where players take turns challenging each other to answer personal or difficult questions (truth) or do an unpleasant task (dare). The term truth or dare has been dated to at least the 1930s, though forms of the game run back centuries. As early as the 1600s, for instance, children played a similar game called questions and commands.

These dares are not to be confused with D.A.R.E. In 1983, the school-based drug education program D.A.R.E., short for Drug Abuse Resistance Education, which started in Los Angeles and spread around the U.S. and U.K. Its “don’t do drugs” approach has been criticized over the decades for limited effectiveness, but in the 2010s D.A.R.E. revamped its curriculum to address concerns.

How is dare used in real life?

As noted, dare can be a noun or verb as well as refer to positive or negative actions, often for dramatic or humorous effect.

Who dares to wakes me at this hour pic.twitter.com/0JioZxSnkr

— Te~Amo& Pepe (@teandpepe) February 25, 2020

Children may challenge one another to dicey or goofy dares—with only their integrity at stake if they chicken out. Young adults may play truth or dare up late at sleepovers.

Dare also appears in a number of set phrases. The more old-fashioned-sounding Dare I say or I dare say preface a provocative or critical statement (Dare I say that dress is a little flashy?).

I dare you can be issued as a challenge, sometimes menacingly (Go ahead and try me. I dare you) or playfully (Name me something better than cheese. I dare you).

Daring to do something, to circle back to where we began, is usually admired, as it takes courage to try something dangerous, groundbreaking, or life-changing.

More examples of dare:

“After mocking one of the actor’s stunts on the Late Late show, Tom challenged the chat show host to do a skydive. It was a dare that couldn’t be ignored, so after a bit of training and with a camera team in tow, that’s what James did.”

—BBC, July 2018