demure

[dih-myoor]

adjective

demurer, demurest 

1. characterized by shyness and modesty; reserved.

   Synonyms: retiring
   Antonyms: indecorous

2. affectedly or coyly decorous, sober, or sedate.

   Antonyms: indecorous

demure

/ dɪˈmjʊə /

adjective

1. sedate; decorous; reserved

2. affectedly modest or prim; coy

Other Word Forms

• demurely adverb
• demureness noun
• undemure adjective
• undemurely adverb
• undemureness noun

Word History and Origins

Origin of demure¹

First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English dem(e)ur(e) “well-mannered, grave,” from Anglo-French demuré, past participle of demurer “to demur”; perhaps influenced by Old French mur, mëur “grave, mature” (from Latin matūrus ); demur

Word History and Origins

Origin of demure¹

C14: perhaps from Old French demorer to delay, linger; perhaps influenced by meur ripe, _mature

Synonym Study

See modest.

Example Sentences

Following “the Sydney Cherkov way,” she wears a lilac blouse that telegraphs meek, demure energy.

From Salon

Actually, that was the same day I shot that “demure” TikTok.

From Los Angeles Times

Her sweet ballads fooled many into thinking she was fragile and demure.

From Los Angeles Times

The garment’s austere black and silver palette projects a demure yet powerful mix of luxury and restraint.

From Los Angeles Times

She’d ask for news of the tenants by name and demure every time he told her they were willing to pay more.

From Los Angeles Times

Related Words

• prim 
• reticent 
• timid 
• unassuming