patronizing
Americanadjective
adjective
Usage
What does patronizing mean? Patronizing is an adjective that means displaying condescension toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that it’s actually kind or helpful to that person.Patronizing can be used to describe a person or their words, tone, attitude, or actions.Patronizing is also the continuous (-ing) form of the verb patronize, which means to act toward someone in this way. (A separate sense of patronize means to be a customer—or patron—of a business or other establishment.)Being patronizing often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child.Example: Don’t be so patronizing, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.
Other Word Forms
- nonpatronizing adjective
- patronizingly adverb
- quasi-patronizing adjective
- quasi-patronizingly adverb
- unpatronizing adjective
- unpatronizingly adverb
Etymology
Origin of patronizing
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Example Sentences
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She smiled at me, more kind than patronizing.
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As outlandish as this all seems, he has never once been patronizing.
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You can empathize with your friend without demonizing your own position or patronizing her by saying everything will be OK.
From MarketWatch
Also, a 2021 study published by the National Bureau of Economic Research documented hostile environments in economics seminars, with female presenters experiencing more interruptions and encountering more patronizing behavior.
From Salon
But his patronizing advice was unrealistic for a working-class teenager.
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