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sober

American  
[soh-ber] / ˈsoʊ bər /

adjective

soberer, soberest
  1. not intoxicated or drunk.

  2. habitually temperate, especially in the use of liquor.

    Synonyms:
    abstemious, abstinent
  3. quiet or sedate in demeanor, as persons.

  4. marked by seriousness, gravity, solemnity, etc., as of demeanor, speech, etc..

    a sober occasion.

    Synonyms:
    staid, subdued, sedate, quiet, serious
    Antonyms:
    gay
  5. subdued in tone, as color; not colorful or showy, as clothes.

    Synonyms:
    dull, somber
  6. free from excess, extravagance, or exaggeration.

    sober facts.

  7. showing self-control.

    sober restraint.

    Synonyms:
    collected, composed
  8. sane or rational.

    a sober solution to the problem.

    Synonyms:
    sound, reasonable

verb (used with or without object)

  1. to make or become sober: (often followed byup ).

sober British  
/ ˈsəʊbə /

adjective

  1. not drunk

  2. not given to excessive indulgence in drink or any other activity

  3. sedate and rational

    a sober attitude to a problem

  4. (of colours) plain and dull or subdued

  5. free from exaggeration or speculation

    he told us the sober truth

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

verb

  1. (usually foll by up) to make or become less intoxicated, reckless, etc

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Related Words

See grave 2.

Other Word Forms

  • nonsober adjective
  • nonsoberly adverb
  • nonsoberness noun
  • quasi-sober adjective
  • quasi-soberly adverb
  • sobering adjective
  • soberingly adverb
  • soberly adverb
  • soberness noun
  • unsober adjective
  • unsobered adjective
  • unsoberly adverb
  • unsoberness noun

Etymology

Origin of sober

First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English sobre, from Old French, from Latin sōbrius

Example Sentences

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But some limits, especially of what’s acceptable, exist for good, sober reasons.

From Salon • Mar. 21, 2026

How does this balance out in terms of how to approach the court in a clear-eyed and sober way but also a way that doesn’t suggest “This is utterly useless, burn it all down”?

From Slate • Mar. 4, 2026

Asked what message he had for Europe, Wright said: "We just need to be serious and sober about energy. Energy makes people's lives better."

From Barron's • Feb. 17, 2026

She’s been sober 17 years and her relationship with Gardner, who came out as gay in 2006 — also in People magazine — has lasted longer than her marriage.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 1, 2026

The shared vision expressed in their drawings struck him as being too sober and monumental.

From "The Devil in the White City" by Erik Larson