sober
Americanadjective
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not intoxicated or drunk.
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habitually temperate, especially in the use of liquor.
- Synonyms:
- abstemious, abstinent
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quiet or sedate in demeanor, as persons.
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marked by seriousness, gravity, solemnity, etc., as of demeanor, speech, etc..
a sober occasion.
- Antonyms:
- gay
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subdued in tone, as color; not colorful or showy, as clothes.
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free from excess, extravagance, or exaggeration.
sober facts.
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showing self-control.
sober restraint.
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sane or rational.
a sober solution to the problem.
- Synonyms:
- sound, reasonable
verb (used with or without object)
adjective
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not drunk
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not given to excessive indulgence in drink or any other activity
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sedate and rational
a sober attitude to a problem
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(of colours) plain and dull or subdued
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free from exaggeration or speculation
he told us the sober truth
verb
Related Words
See grave 2.
Other Word Forms
- nonsober adjective
- nonsoberly adverb
- nonsoberness noun
- quasi-sober adjective
- quasi-soberly adverb
- sobering adjective
- soberingly adverb
- soberly adverb
- soberness noun
- unsober adjective
- unsobered adjective
- unsoberly adverb
- unsoberness noun
Etymology
Origin of sober
First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English sobre, from Old French, from Latin sōbrius
Example Sentences
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But some limits, especially of what’s acceptable, exist for good, sober reasons.
From Salon • Mar. 21, 2026
How does this balance out in terms of how to approach the court in a clear-eyed and sober way but also a way that doesn’t suggest “This is utterly useless, burn it all down”?
From Slate • Mar. 4, 2026
Asked what message he had for Europe, Wright said: "We just need to be serious and sober about energy. Energy makes people's lives better."
From Barron's • Feb. 17, 2026
She’s been sober 17 years and her relationship with Gardner, who came out as gay in 2006 — also in People magazine — has lasted longer than her marriage.
From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 1, 2026
The shared vision expressed in their drawings struck him as being too sober and monumental.
From "The Devil in the White City" by Erik Larson
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