widower

American  

[wid-oh-er] / ˈwɪd oʊ ər /

noun

1. a man who has lost his spouse by death and has not remarried.

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widower British  

/ ˈwɪdəʊə /

noun

1. a man whose wife has died and who has not remarried

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Other Word Forms

• widowered adjective
• widowerhood noun

Etymology

Origin of widower

1325–75; late Middle English ( widow, -er ¹ ); replacing widow (now dial.), Old English wydewa

Explanation

If your grandmother has died, you can call your grandfather a widower, or a man whose wife is no longer living. When a man loses his wife, he becomes a widower. The equivalent name for a woman whose husband dies is a widow. In many cases, a man is only referred to as a widower if he has not remarried. Both a widow and a widower are described as being widowed. The feminine form of this word came first, from the Old English widewe. The Indo-European root means "be empty," which perfectly describes the grief that many recent widowers feel.

Example Sentences

He’s also a widower who lost his wife not to some boring disease but in a way that only a real spitfire would go, by flipping her ATV.

From Salon • Mar. 23, 2026

The movie — which he wrote, directed and stars in — follows a widower as he scatters his wife’s ashes in very specific locations and deals with the memories that arise at each of them.

From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 3, 2026

I am a healthy, active 71-year-old widower and I fully retired last May.

From MarketWatch • Jan. 29, 2026

John Mohring, 60, a widower and construction worker of Kenosha, Wisconsin, has backed Trump since 2016.

From BBC • Dec. 9, 2025

I couldn’t help noticing how in only three weeks as a widower he already looked like one.

From "Cold Sassy Tree" by Olive Ann Burns