No Offense, These Words Used To Be Inoffensive Times have changed, and words have too It's easier than ever to offend because, as a whole, we have become more socially aware of the way words can negatively affect people. That being said, we all are likely to put our foot in our mouth because as times change, many words also change in their level of acceptability. Spoiler alert: Shoe leather tastes bad. So, make your mother proud . . . steer clear of these words that used to be inoffensive but can now do more harm than good. Housewife Speaking of moms, they all deserve respect, especially those with the difficult task of staying home and managing the messes the rest of us create. So, avoid the word housewife when referring to a stay-at-home mom. It's out of date (first recorded in 1175!) and out of touch. And, it implies a status lower than a spouse working out of the home. Remember, stay-at-home moms are selfless, responsible, and altruistic. And, if you're still looking for a term to call them, try just saying "thank you." Broad Was this ever a good idea? Definitely not. The word broad is slang for "woman," (and sometimes "promiscuous woman") and was popular from the 1910s until the early 1960s. Then again, so was smoking. Like smoking, the term broad is outdated and unfashionable, not to mention demeaning. So, do yourself a favor, remember that a female is also a professional and somebody's daughter, mother, or partner. Also, easily enough, you can call a woman just that. No slang needed. Elderly Hey, we all age. Its a fact. So, when using the word elderly to refer to somebody getting up there in years, all you're really doing is being cruel. The word was once commonplace (first recorded in 1605) for people of advanced age. However, elderly has come to be frowned upon because it implies an older individual as frail or weak. Instead, consider treating your grandparents as the mentors they are. The words accomplished, well-versed, or wise come to mind. Also, important to remember: Getting old is going to happen to you, too. Dumb We all have friends who don't make any sense, right? Don't call them dumb, though. This an old word, a really old word (originated before the year 1000). It was once accepted to mean lacking intelligence or logic. It still does. However, it has also become pejoratively associated with the mentally-disabled, and picking on people's disabilities isn't funny. So, when your friends continue to spout absurd arguments, call them what they are: illogical and prove them silly using your razor-sharp wit (while simultaneously displaying class because you knew to steer clear of terms that might hurt others). Fat Unacceptable on all levels. There was a time in the not-so-distant past when commenting on people's weight was fair game. Thankfully, we've become a more enlightened society since then. The word fat is another really old word (originated before the year 1000) that should probably stay in the historical books. It has the ability to cause shame and . . . worse. Never use it when describing others. Instead, try something body-positive: pulchritudinous will do. Hot It's true, we all want to be thought of as attractive. Nowadays, however, referring to an individual as strictly hot dismisses other positive attributes like altruism, acumen, or a sense of humor. Try to look past the aesthetics. Privileged A tough one: Privileged (dating back to 1350) used to mean a member of the upper-class. Not such a bad thing, right? Who doesn't aspire to climbing the ladder of success? Today, though, privileged has a negative connotation for one removed from the working class. When used now, it basically means you're calling someone an elitist. And, unless they are really harming the working class, money doesn't necessarily mean avarice. (We consider this a prime example of words that divide us . . . what do you think?) Ethnic Ethnic food, right? Wrong. The word ethnic (dating back to 1325) was once used to describe a group of people sharing a distinctive culture. Not anymore. Now, when calling somebody ethnic, you're actually referring to him or her as racially different and, in some way, out of the mainstream. Everyone is the same: blood, guts, and all. Next time, why not just be more specific? He isn't ethnic, he's Chinese-American. Urban Urban means the city, doesn't it? Well, yes, it does. And, in fact, when talking mundane statistics like population density, the term is still applicable. On the other hand, when referring to people, urban is a big no-no. The word has come to be known as a reference to black people living in the inner city . . . and not in a good way. Like ethnic, using the term urban highlights the differences between people instead of their similarities. No need for alternate suggestions on this one. Inclusivity for all! Ghetto Please . . . just don't. The word ghetto (dating back to 1605) used to refer to a thickly-populated section of a city where Jews were forced to reside. Like urban, ghetto is now understood as code for referencing minorities. Nothing about coded language is good. It's ignorant and condescending, and since you've read this whole slideshow, we now know that you're better than that!