Slang dictionary hot mess [ hot mess ] Published August 6, 2018 What does hot mess mean? You might be hot and you might be a mess, but are you a hot mess? Hot mess is used to describe a particularly disorganized person or chaotic situation. In some uses, a person described as a hot mess is attractive but just barely keeping it together. Related words badd, shitshow, This is fine, if you can't handle me at my worst, duck lips Where does hot mess come from? The phrase hot mess didn’t always describe a person or a situation. The original use was actually culinary. In the early 1800s, a hot mess was nothing more than a warm meal, especially a gloopy one. Think mess as in mess hall, or cafeteria. An elementary school Sloppy Joe, was definitely a hot mess. gfycat.com From there, the meaning of hot mess expanded to messy situations outside the cafeteria. By the 1900s, we were describing any chaotic situation and any confusing or disordered person or thing as a hot mess. The hot mess train kept going, first appearing on Urban Dictionary in the early 2000s, around the time hot mess spread as a term for a fashion and style descriptor. The term saw a spike in popularity in 2007 with Christian Siriano’s controversial Project Runway tagline, hot tranny mess, and with the release of BET’s Hot Ghetto Mess, a show inspired by the popular website of the same name. In both cases, the hot mess in question was a hopelessly shabby, unfashionable, all-over-the-place person. be a Hot Mess at Work Hot mess saw an increase in interest again in 2009 with the release of pop band Cobra Starship’s album titled Hot Mess, bringing a sexy subset of hot messes to the forefront. The title track of that album tells the story of a young woman living the unhealthy life of a partier but looking sexy doing it. Hot messes that you’re confusingly attracted to don’t have to be people, though. Searches for hot mess spiked again in 2013 with the release of fast-food restaurant Jack in the Box’s Hot Mess burger. Spicy-hot and demanding a whole roll of paper towels to eat it, the burger featured pepper jack cheese, onion rings, and jalapeño peppers. You know it’s not good for you, but you still want it, don’t you, you hot mess, you? Examples of hot mess Cas honey.... you can't just throw a f*cking hot mess of a line like "I don't sweat under any circumstances" innocently. Goddammit, you sexy, unbelievably adorable, multidimensional wavelength of celestial intent. @lenastiel, March, 2018 Before I publicly embarrass myself with photographic evidence of attempting the art of dance, allow me to just quickly sum up my dance skills for you: ...I don't have any. Put me on a treadmill, a spin bike, hell, throw me into a pool (I'd actually rather you not, though, as I'm kind of a sensitive swimmer), and I'll do the damn thing with beauty, grace, Miss United States. But ... dancing? God, I'm a hot fucking mess on the dance floor. Sarah Kinonen, Allure, September, 2017 be a Hot Mess at Work SEE MORE EXAMPLES Who uses hot mess? Anything that’s a particularly disorganized disaster can be described as a hot mess nowadays. Just stay away from Liberals. For them to have gone through an entire lifetime and still believe in that hot mess of hypocrisy and contradictions, there has to be something SERIOUSLY wrong with them. Nothing good can come from allowing them into your personal space. — Bill Mitchell (@mitchellvii) March 30, 2018 Here at Trump Towers, we like our food to reflect the man whose name graces the front, a fatty hot mess that is all over the place. https://t.co/DnttOaqcb9 — FatChickinL.A. Cuddly Rebel (@FatChickinLA) September 29, 2017 Today, describing someone as a hot mess sometimes has an implicit sexual connotation, especially when describing women. If she’s a hot mess, she’s trouble, but you want her anyway. Some users pun on the sexual innuendo of the hot in hot mess … I’m a hot mess… minus the hot… and triple the mess lol 😆😅 — Taylor Todd (@tatodd97) July 17, 2018 … while others pun on the heat of the hot mess, especially when posting sweaty workout pictures. Falling into lava would be a pretty hot messhttps://t.co/NzGADgcP36 pic.twitter.com/gWTgT553c5 — The Verge (@verge) May 30, 2018 Hot mess is sometimes accompanied by an intensifier or infix between hot and mess, usually fuck or ass. "Ooooooo0hh, guurrrl you look a hot ass mess…." #bitchyesyoudo #anyway #abitchisgonnahookyouup #yyyeeaahhhhh #cinderella #bippityboppityboo A post shared by Michael Sean LeSueur (@msuspiriorum) on Oct 15, 2016 at 10:47am PDT Just Added fictosexual, shacket, California sober, comfort character, grandfluencer Note This is not meant to be a formal definition of hot mess like most terms we define on Dictionary.com, but is rather an informal word summary that hopefully touches upon the key aspects of the meaning and usage of hot mess that will help our users expand their word mastery.