WATCH: We Asked: What Does The Word “Allies” Mean To You?
It used to be that when we spoke of allies, it was most likely in a military sense, referring to countries formally banded together, usually by treaty, to fight against their enemies. Today, the word is used more broadly though.
What does ally mean today?
Ally, the singular form of the noun, is used to describe “someone who supports disenfranchised and underrepresented groups of people within our own country, such as minorities and those in the LBGQT community.”
We’re still talking about war, but it’s a different type of war—a war on bigotry, racism, sexism, hate, and ugly, ignorant words and actions. Allies use their own privilege to help raise visibility and create opportunities for those at a disadvantage.
How do you become an ally?
Some allies are also advocates or activists, but you don’t have to march or attend rallies to be an ally. GLAAD offers tips on how to be ally and a friend, including simple things like being a listener and being willing to give more challenging advice, such as “Confront your own prejudices and bias, even if it is uncomfortable to do so.” This last one seems to be a key component of being an ally—not just standing up for what’s right, but acknowledging that you may be part of the problem, too, and making the effort to address those ingrained beliefs and prejudices.
One celebrity recently in the spotlight for wearing the ally cap is Amy Schumer, who announced she won’t appear in any 2019 Super Bowl ads, as she’s standing in solidarity with Colin Kaepernick against the way the NFL responded to protests of racial inequality.
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Friday thought. I wonder why more white players aren’t kneeling. Once you witness the truly deep inequality and endless racism people of color face in our country, not to mention the police brutality and murders. Why not kneel next to your brothers? Otherwise how are you not complicit? I think it would be cool if @maroon5 backed out of super bowl like @badgalriri Did. I personally told my reps I wouldn’t do a Super Bowl commercial this year. I know it must sound like a privilege ass sacrifice but it’s all i got. Hitting the nfl with the advertisers is the only way to really hurt them. I know opposing the nfl is like opposing the nra. Very tough, but don’t you want to be proud of how you’re living? Stand up for your brothers and sisters of color. And the hottest thing a guy can do is get down on one knee. Not to propose but to reject the treatment of his teammates by this country. Anyone who says its disrespectful to our military please read up on the fact that a lot of veterans are proud of what @kaepernick7 is doing and fully support him. What are your thoughts?
Can you call yourself an ally?
In many ways, the term ally is subjective. Some would argue that it’s not a title one should claim for themselves, but rather one that’s bestowed on them by people who are marginalized. Schumer has, in fact, been called out for other behavior, such as racist jokes, that many would say take her out of the ally camp.
Why we need more allies …
You don’t have to have celebrity status to be an ally; anyone can be one. In fact, everyone should be one. You can’t walk in someone else’s shoes, but you can acknowledge that they were given a tougher road to travel, support them as they walk it, and try your best to improve it in any way you can.