flay
Americanverb
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to strip off the skin or outer covering of, esp by whipping; skin
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to attack with savage criticism
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to strip of money or goods, esp by cheating or extortion
Usage
What does flay mean? To flay is to strip off the skin or outer covering of something. Flay is most commonly used metaphorically to refer to severely criticizing someone. It can also mean to cheat or deprive someone of money or property. The original, literal meaning of flay typically referred to removing the skin of an animal. Flay can also refer to removing the skin of a human, especially as a form of torture by whipping. Neither of its literal senses are commonly used anymore, except perhaps in fiction. Example: People on social media love to flay celebrities who are caught doing the opposite of what they always tell other people to do.
Other Word Forms
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Inflected Forms
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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flaysimple
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flayssimple
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have flayedperfect
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has flayedperfect
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am flayingprogressive
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are flayingprogressive
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is flayingprogressive
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have been flayingperfect progressive
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has been flayingperfect progressive
Past
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flayedsimple
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had flayedperfect
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was flayingprogressive
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were flayingprogressive
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had been flayingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of flay
before 900; Middle English flen, Old English flēan; cognate with Middle Dutch vlaen, Old Norse flā
Explanation
Nasty word, flay. It means to peel or beat the skin of a person or animal, and not necessarily a dead one, either. Nowadays it more commonly means to criticize harshly someone or something, usually in public, leaving them raw and wounded. To be flayed alive was a common punishment in ancient times for political enemies or traitors. The ancient Assyrians were particularly good at it. Today, if you want to have your skin — metaphorically — peeled in public, you go on reality TV. It can be equally nasty.
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Example Sentences
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From then on, he curbed his aggressive instincts to support Gill, but could not resist one straight flay off Bashir for six.
From BBC • Jun. 20, 2025
This isn’t to criticize the family, but to flay CNN, which should have reported the factual context of the household’s inflation experience.
From Los Angeles Times • Nov. 10, 2021
Looking to flay the left-armer through cover, his feet weren’t quite there and thus, nor his blade.
From The Guardian • Jun. 23, 2021
A sizable slice of the joy derived from “Pose” is in watching Jackson flay her challengers with the crisp delivery and presence perfected by the likes of Grace Jones.
From Salon • Jun. 1, 2018
But presently I gave command to my officers to flay those sheep the bronze cut down, and make burnt offerings of flesh to the gods below—to sovereign Death, to pale Persephone.
From "The Odyssey" by Homer
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