Dictionary.com
Thesaurus.com
Synonyms

mortify

American  
[mawr-tuh-fahy] / ˈmɔr təˌfaɪ /

verb (used with object)

  • mortifies,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • mortified,
    past participle,  past
  • mortifying
    present participle
  1. to humiliate or shame, as by injury to one's pride or self-respect.

    Synonyms:
    abase, humble
  2. to subjugate (the body, passions, etc.) by abstinence, ascetic discipline, or self-inflicted suffering.

    Synonyms:
    restrain, subdue
  3. Pathology. to affect with gangrene or necrosis.


verb (used without object)

  • mortifies,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • mortified,
    past participle,  past
  • mortifying
    present participle
  1. to practice mortification or disciplinary austerities.

  2. Pathology. to undergo mortification; become gangrened or necrosed.

mortify British  
/ ˈmɔːtɪˌfaɪ /

verb

  1. (tr) to humiliate or cause to feel shame

  2. (tr) Christianity to subdue and bring under control by self-denial, disciplinary exercises, etc

  3. (intr) to undergo tissue death or become gangrenous

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does mortify mean? Mortify means to humiliate or embarrass in an extreme way. You know when you do something so unbearably embarrassing that you just want to shrivel up and die? That’s what it’s like to feel mortified. Which is fitting because the word comes from a root meaning “death.”Things that are humiliating or extremely embarrassing can be described as mortifying. This feeling of humiliation or extreme embarrassment can be called mortification. Mortify can also be used in a way that relates to literal death. In medical terms, to mortify is to undergo mortification—the death of one part of the body while the rest of the body is alive. This is more technically called gangrene or necrosis. Mortify is also used (less commonly) in a religious context, in which it means to  practice ascetic self-discipline with the goal of strengthening one’s will and overcoming the desire to sin. In Christianity, forms of mortification include things like fasting. In some extreme cases, especially in older times, it has included things like self-flagellation—whipping oneself. Example: Even when I do my best not to embarrass my kids, I still end up mortifying them on most occasions.

Synonym Usage

See ashamed.

Other Word Forms

Derived Forms

Inflected Forms

Participles

Conjugated Forms

Present

Past

Future

Etymology

Origin of mortify

First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English mortifien, from Middle French mortifier, from Late Latin mortificāre “to put to death,” equivalent to Latin morti- (stem of mors ) “death” + -ficāre -fy

Explanation

To mortify someone is to cause them extreme embarrassment. Your mother may not have been trying to mortify you when she showed up at your senior prom with a bunch of unicorn balloons, but she did. The root of the verb mortify is from the Latin word mors, which means “death.” To mortify something used to mean to destroy its life, but now mortify is mostly used when you feel so ashamed or embarrassed you “want to die.” To punish yourself through deprivation from food or another desire, you can mortify that compulsion, but it’s probably best to just mortify your parents by showing up at their work place with a new mohawk.

Keep Reading on Vocabulary.com

Vocabulary lists containing mortify

Example Sentences

Examples are provided to illustrate real-world usage of words in context. Any opinions expressed do not reflect the views of Dictionary.com.

See Examples For:

That it seems a choice at all is what should mortify us.

From Salon ● Feb. 9, 2024

A few years after I sent the quarterback the audio recording, a friend who lived in his dorm told me that he’d played it aloud for his buddies in an effort to mortify me.

From Los Angeles Times ● Jan. 4, 2024

The pangram from yesterday’s Spelling Bee was mortify.

From New York Times ● Mar. 28, 2023

“Don’t take advantage of your own position and role to mortify the other.”

From Seattle Times ● Dec. 22, 2022

“What’s the point of being old if you can’t mortify the young? Well, I’ll leave you two in peace. Good day, young lady. It was a real pleasure.”

From "Strange the Dreamer" by Laini Taylor

Yet even as the siblings lose their sophistication and their self-control to a degree that mortifies their loved ones, Mr. Kolker sees more than tragedy in his subjects’ second selves.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Sep. 25, 2026

It said the spread of English "demeans and mortifies" Italian and proposed that all public and private bodies had to use the language of Dante to promote their goods and services.

From Reuters ● Mar. 31, 2023

Being stalked by an invisible enemy surely mortifies those with an obsessive-compulsive fear of germs, and deepens the distress of many who have experienced waves of uncontrollable anxiety before the epidemic.

From New York Times ● Apr. 23, 2020

“I know not which mortifies me most,” he wrote, “that I should fear to write what I think, or my country bear such a state of things.”

From Salon ● Jul. 18, 2018

I ought to have read more, for I find I don’t know anything, and it mortifies me.

From "Little Women" by Louisa May Alcott

In Jablonec, Rangers were unspeakably awful, devoid of any cohesion, desire, threat, their manager reduced to saying how embarrassed and mortified he was multiple times post-match.

From BBC ● Aug. 27, 2026

“I’m mortified to say, however, I fell hard for this one.”

From The Wall Street Journal ● Aug. 13, 2026

"I remember when my mother was mortified that I was walking down the street with a phone to my ear," he says.

From BBC ● Aug. 5, 2026

If I was mortified just to breathe, how could I even think about loving another man?

From Los Angeles Times ● Jul. 17, 2026

She’d be mortified and ashamed of me and...

From "The Help" by Kathryn Stockett

And how mortifying would it be if Mr. Kemp’s guy made the runoff and won?

From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 23, 2026

She said that as a dyscalculic student that was a "really humiliating and mortifying experience".

From BBC ● Apr. 15, 2026

You should, and when you win, I’m sure your acceptance speech will be somewhat mortifying for your kids, so two wins.

From Los Angeles Times ● Feb. 25, 2026

And then enough time passed that it began to feel slightly mortifying to say, “Hi, I realize I should have introduced myself years ago, but here I am!”

From Salon ● Jan. 27, 2026

This is mortifying but at least she does it indoors, where no one can see her.

From "Cat's Eye" by Margaret Atwood

Vocabulary.com logo
by dictionary.com

Join 14,000,000 vocabulary learners

Start learning new words today on VocabTrainer.
You'll remember them forever.

Start training