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mortify

American  
[mawr-tuh-fahy] / ˈmɔr təˌfaɪ /

verb (used with object)

  • mortifies,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • mortified,
    past participle,  past
  • mortifying
    present participle
  1. to humiliate or shame, as by injury to one's pride or self-respect.

    Synonyms:
    abase, humble
  2. to subjugate (the body, passions, etc.) by abstinence, ascetic discipline, or self-inflicted suffering.

    Synonyms:
    restrain, subdue
  3. Pathology. to affect with gangrene or necrosis.


verb (used without object)

  • mortifies,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • mortified,
    past participle,  past
  • mortifying
    present participle
  1. to practice mortification or disciplinary austerities.

  2. Pathology. to undergo mortification; become gangrened or necrosed.

mortify British  
/ ˈmɔːtɪˌfaɪ /

verb

  1. (tr) to humiliate or cause to feel shame

  2. (tr) Christianity to subdue and bring under control by self-denial, disciplinary exercises, etc

  3. (intr) to undergo tissue death or become gangrenous

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does mortify mean? Mortify means to humiliate or embarrass in an extreme way. You know when you do something so unbearably embarrassing that you just want to shrivel up and die? That’s what it’s like to feel mortified. Which is fitting because the word comes from a root meaning “death.”Things that are humiliating or extremely embarrassing can be described as mortifying. This feeling of humiliation or extreme embarrassment can be called mortification. Mortify can also be used in a way that relates to literal death. In medical terms, to mortify is to undergo mortification—the death of one part of the body while the rest of the body is alive. This is more technically called gangrene or necrosis. Mortify is also used (less commonly) in a religious context, in which it means to  practice ascetic self-discipline with the goal of strengthening one’s will and overcoming the desire to sin. In Christianity, forms of mortification include things like fasting. In some extreme cases, especially in older times, it has included things like self-flagellation—whipping oneself. Example: Even when I do my best not to embarrass my kids, I still end up mortifying them on most occasions.

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See ashamed.

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Origin of mortify

First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English mortifien, from Middle French mortifier, from Late Latin mortificāre “to put to death,” equivalent to Latin morti- (stem of mors ) “death” + -ficāre -fy

Explanation

To mortify someone is to cause them extreme embarrassment. Your mother may not have been trying to mortify you when she showed up at your senior prom with a bunch of unicorn balloons, but she did. The root of the verb mortify is from the Latin word mors, which means “death.” To mortify something used to mean to destroy its life, but now mortify is mostly used when you feel so ashamed or embarrassed you “want to die.” To punish yourself through deprivation from food or another desire, you can mortify that compulsion, but it’s probably best to just mortify your parents by showing up at their work place with a new mohawk.

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In a sequence that would mortify anyone averse to audience participation, he gently beseeches a handful of patrons to stand with their hands up and foreheads against the wall, like a row of perpetrators.

From New York Times Feb. 12, 2024

That it seems a choice at all is what should mortify us.

From Salon Feb. 9, 2024

A few years after I sent the quarterback the audio recording, a friend who lived in his dorm told me that he’d played it aloud for his buddies in an effort to mortify me.

From Los Angeles Times Jan. 4, 2024

“Don’t take advantage of your own position and role to mortify the other.”

From Seattle Times Dec. 22, 2022

Women who had lost their children drifted over little by little, to mortify themselves with possibilities and never-would-bes.

From "The Underground Railroad: A Novel" by Colson Whitehead

“The idea that I’d go out with a recent widower just mortifies me,” Carolyn told THR.

From Salon Nov. 29, 2023

It said the spread of English "demeans and mortifies" Italian and proposed that all public and private bodies had to use the language of Dante to promote their goods and services.

From Reuters Mar. 31, 2023

Being stalked by an invisible enemy surely mortifies those with an obsessive-compulsive fear of germs, and deepens the distress of many who have experienced waves of uncontrollable anxiety before the epidemic.

From New York Times Apr. 23, 2020

Saint-André worries that cases similar to hers are ignored by overenthusiastic doctors – and the thought of patients self-medicating with no professional supervision mortifies her.

From The Guardian Sep. 16, 2016

I ought to have read more, for I find I don’t know anything, and it mortifies me.

From "Little Women" by Louisa May Alcott

“I’m mortified to say, however, I fell hard for this one.”

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 13, 2026

If I was mortified just to breathe, how could I even think about loving another man?

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 17, 2026

The patient's mortified family immediately apologised but the damage had been done, Vicario says, and such experiences leave him feeling powerless, anxious and nervous.

From BBC May 12, 2026

For instance, Washington would have been mortified to hear his rigorously trained Virginia Regiment characterized as a lowly militia.

From The Wall Street Journal Apr. 27, 2026

I’d be mortified in front of a man like that.

From "The Diary of a Young Girl" by Anne Frank

Imagine how mortifying it would be if anyone ever read your diary.

From The Wall Street Journal May 9, 2026

She said that as a dyscalculic student that was a "really humiliating and mortifying experience".

From BBC Apr. 15, 2026

Little did I know this would turn out to be equal parts amazing and mortifying.

From Los Angeles Times Dec. 12, 2025

On this week’s Slate Plus bonus episode of Amicus, co-hosts Dahlia Lithwick and Mark Joseph Stern discussed the DOJ’s rather mortifying confession and its implications for the broader battle over Trump’s federalization of the Guard.

From Slate Oct. 31, 2025

“Irene Blythe says she witnessed you and Russell in a . . .” The words died in her mouth, apparently too mortifying to say aloud.

From "The Red Car to Hollywood" by Jennie Liu

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