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dismay

American  
[dis-mey] / dɪsˈmeɪ /

verb (used with object)

  1. to break down the courage of completely, as by sudden danger or trouble; dishearten thoroughly; daunt.

    The surprise attack dismayed the enemy.

    Synonyms:
    intimidate, scare, frighten, terrify, appall
    Antonyms:
    hearten
  2. to surprise in such a manner as to disillusion.

    She was dismayed to learn of their disloyalty.

  3. to alarm; perturb.

    The new law dismayed some of the more conservative politicians.


noun

  1. sudden or complete loss of courage; utter disheartenment.

    Synonyms:
    fear, horror, panic, terror, consternation, disconcert
    Antonyms:
    confidence
  2. sudden disillusionment.

  3. agitation of mind; perturbation; alarm.

dismay British  
/ dɪsˈmeɪ /

verb

  1. to fill with apprehension or alarm

  2. to fill with depression or discouragement

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noun

  1. consternation or agitation

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Related Words

See discourage.

Other Word Forms

  • dismaying adjective
  • dismayingly adverb

Etymology

Origin of dismay

First recorded in 1275–1325; Middle English desmay (noun), de(s)mayen, dismayen (verb), from presumed Anglo-French alteration, by prefix change, of Old French esmaier “to trouble, frighten,” from unattested Vulgar Latin exmagāre “to disable, deprive of strength,” equivalent to ex- ex- 1 + unattested magāre, from unattested Germanic magan “to be able to”; see may 1

Explanation

If you discover late Sunday night that the dog really did eat your homework, you might cry out in dismay. Dismay describes an emotional state of alarm, fear, or serious disappointment. The first part of dismay comes from the Latin prefix dis-, which comes in handy when you want to put a negative spin on words (dishonest, discount, disenchant, etc.). The last bit of dismay most likely comes from the Germanic word magan, meaning "to be able to." You can employ the word dismay to describe how you feel in a variety of negative situations that you doubt you are able to handle.

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Example Sentences

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The room was comfortable, with a large shower, and I loved that the windows opened slightly — always a win for me — though the AC wouldn’t go below 67 degrees, much to my dismay.

From Salon • Mar. 31, 2026

Hispanic leaders have expressed dismay at the allegations and several other organizations have canceled or altered planned events honoring Chavez.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 18, 2026

Insiders at the station say they have been deluged with emails and texts expressing dismay over Nexstar’s moves which eliminated a number of staffers with decades of experience and institutional knowledge.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 25, 2026

"These EP tracks couldn't wait; these songs were impatient to be out in the world. They are songs of defiance and dismay," frontman Bono said in a statement.

From Barron's • Feb. 18, 2026

C.P. had heard this one often enough so that, against his will and much to his dismay, he anticipated each line before the lyrics were actually sung.

From "The Best of Enemies" by Osha Gray Davidson