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polite

American  
[puh-lahyt] / pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

politer, politest
  1. showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    a polite reply.

    Synonyms:
    gracious, well-bred
    Antonyms:
    rude
  2. refined or cultured.

    polite society.

    Synonyms:
    cultivated, courtly, poised, polished, urbane
  3. of a refined or elegant kind.

    polite learning.


polite British  
/ pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

  1. showing regard for others, in manners, speech, behaviour, etc; courteous

  2. cultivated or refined

    polite society

  3. elegant or polished

    polite letters

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

See civil.

Other Word Forms

Etymology

Origin of polite

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin polītus, past participle of polīre “to polish”; see polish

Explanation

Polite means showing regards for others in manners, speech, and behavior. Since you are a polite dinner guest, you thank the host for inviting you and, even though you think the chicken is not cooked to perfection, you tell her you are enjoying the meal. The adjective polite comes from the mid-13th century Latin politus, which means "refined" or "elegant." Showing consideration for others, using tact, and observing social norms are the qualities of being polite. The opposite of polite is rude. Because the poet E.E. Cummings thought imagination is most important, he wrote, “Knowledge is a polite word for dead but not buried imagination.”

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During his two-plus years in office, Benn became known among journalists for being incredibly polite and approachable.

From BBC Jul. 20, 2026

De la Fuente, soft-spoken and professorial, is also scrupulously polite, an example many of his players follow.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 20, 2026

Perhaps more polite and compliant nations could make their peace with that arrangement.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 13, 2026

The hope is to become a "big fish" who mediates between the grunts and those with cash, maybe even entering polite society.

From Barron's Jul. 13, 2026

Fischer rushed through the backstage corridor onto the subtly flower-bedecked stage and was greeted by the polite applause of an audience of twenty-three hundred.

From "Endgame" by Frank Brady

An 18-year-old woman said ghosting was “a little bit politer way to reject someone than to directly say, ‘I do not want to chat with you.’

From Washington Post Jul. 25, 2022

In fact, the politer our discourse is in general, the more dramatic the effect when breaking the rules of politeness becomes necessary.

From Slate Nov. 14, 2018

"This is a politer was of saying 'hysteria,'" Traister tweeted.

From Salon Sep. 6, 2018

She admires various classical and modern dancers and choreographers and works, but her own dancers enact a brash and pitiless system of movement that disdains and subverts politer forms.

From The New Yorker Jun. 22, 2015

“I’d be politer, if I was you, to the man with the glamry blade.”

From "Impossible Creatures" by Katherine Rundell

Ebert, also 39, is the politest, a kind force who, 17 years later, remains the new guy after Johnson and Knobbe formed the band a year before.

From Los Angeles Times Jan. 22, 2026

The 20-year-old said she had only positive interactions with some of the men who live at the hotel, who she describes as "the politest people".

From BBC Jul. 24, 2025

“The politest way is to enlist the aid of the flight attendants,” says Jodi RR Smith, an etiquette consultant.

From Seattle Times Feb. 26, 2024

I’ll say one thing for “Knock at the Cabin”: M. Night Shyamalan may have made the politest — and the most provocative — home-invasion horror movie you’ll ever see.

From Washington Post Feb. 1, 2023

“Not at all. Hank is the politest kid I’ve ever met, and Boo is a hoot,” Ray says.

From "The Tenth Mistake of Hank Hooperman" by Gennifer Choldenko

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