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polite

American  
[puh-lahyt] / pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

politer, politest
  1. An image of the word polite as defined by showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    a polite reply.

    Synonyms:
    gracious, well-bred
    Antonyms:
    rude
  2. refined or cultured.

    polite society.

    Synonyms:
    cultivated, courtly, poised, polished, urbane
  3. of a refined or elegant kind.

    polite learning.


polite British  
/ pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

  1. showing regard for others, in manners, speech, behaviour, etc; courteous

  2. cultivated or refined

    polite society

  3. elegant or polished

    polite letters

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

See civil.

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Etymology

Origin of polite

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin polītus, past participle of polīre “to polish”; see polish


Explanation

Polite means showing regards for others in manners, speech, and behavior. Since you are a polite dinner guest, you thank the host for inviting you and, even though you think the chicken is not cooked to perfection, you tell her you are enjoying the meal. The adjective polite comes from the mid-13th century Latin politus, which means "refined" or "elegant." Showing consideration for others, using tact, and observing social norms are the qualities of being polite. The opposite of polite is rude. Because the poet E.E. Cummings thought imagination is most important, he wrote, “Knowledge is a polite word for dead but not buried imagination.”

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I don’t like a polite amount, at least 25 grams per person.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Nov. 1, 2026

They’re polite, but understandably eager for the day to be over; already thinking about a few hours from now when they’ll meet “Al and El” and others for dinner at Chateau Marmont.

From Los Angeles Times ● Oct. 26, 2026

Despite the polite crowd at my screening, I wondered if questionable theater etiquette came into play elsewhere.

From Salon ● Oct. 22, 2026

They’re banking, literally and figuratively, on you being polite.

From MarketWatch ● Oct. 19, 2026

“Miss Two Legs? Why, that is not a very polite form of address,” Penelope mumbled in reply.

From "The Hidden Gallery" by Maryrose Wood

An 18-year-old woman said ghosting was “a little bit politer way to reject someone than to directly say, ‘I do not want to chat with you.’

From Washington Post ● Jul. 25, 2022

And the video has so many star cameos it feels like a politer version of that misbegotten cover of “Imagine.”

From Slate ● Jun. 12, 2020

They wield illusory credits and debits, pecuniary symbols of wealth, all the better to club their opponents into a politer businesslike submission.

From Salon ● Jan. 29, 2019

She admires various classical and modern dancers and choreographers and works, but her own dancers enact a brash and pitiless system of movement that disdains and subverts politer forms.

From The New Yorker ● Jun. 22, 2015

It seemed politer to sit still and to speak when he was spoken to.

From "The Once and Future King" by T. H. White

The 20-year-old said she had only positive interactions with some of the men who live at the hotel, who she describes as "the politest people".

From BBC ● Jul. 24, 2025

“The politest way is to enlist the aid of the flight attendants,” says Jodi RR Smith, an etiquette consultant.

From Seattle Times ● Feb. 26, 2024

When confronted about these statements by a reporter, McCain defended the use of the term, saying it was the politest term he could think of.

From Los Angeles Times ● Jul. 30, 2021

Then, of course, there is my politest critic.

From Washington Post ● Jan. 2, 2019

"Good afternoon," I say in my politest voice.

From "Born Behind Bars" by Padma Venkatraman

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