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bother

American  
[both-er] / ˈbɒð ər /

verb (used with object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to annoy; give trouble to; pester.

    His little sister kept bothering him for candy.

  2. to cause unease, anxiety, or worry in (someone).

    I hadn't realized how much being in a small boat bothers me until we got into choppy waters.

    Synonyms:
    disturb, molest, irritate, vex, harass
  3. to bewilder; confuse.

    His inability to understand the joke bothered him.


verb (used without object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to take the trouble; trouble or inconvenience oneself.

    Don't bother to call. He has no time to bother with trifles.

noun

  • bothers
    plural
  1. something troublesome, burdensome, or annoying.

    Doing the laundry every week can be a terrible bother.

  2. effort, work, or worry.

    Gardening takes more bother than it's worth.

  3. a worried or perplexed state.

    Don't get into such a bother about small matters.

  4. someone or something that bothers or annoys.

    My cousin is a perpetual bother to me.

interjection

  1. Chiefly British. (used to express mild irritation.)

bother British  
/ ˈbɒðə /

verb

  1. (tr) to give annoyance, pain, or trouble to; irritate

    his bad leg is bothering him again

  2. (tr) to trouble (a person) by repeatedly disturbing; pester

    stop bothering your father!

  3. (intr) to take the time or trouble; concern oneself

    don't bother to come with me

  4. (tr) to make (a person) alarmed or confused

    the thought of her husband's return clearly bothered her

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. a state of worry, trouble, or confusion

  2. a person or thing that causes fuss, trouble, or annoyance

  3. informal a disturbance or fight; trouble (esp in the phrase a spot of bother )

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

interjection

  1. an exclamation of slight annoyance

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

Bother, annoy, plague, tease imply persistent interference with one's comfort or peace of mind. Bother suggests causing trouble or weariness or repeatedly interrupting in the midst of pressing duties. To annoy is to vex or irritate by bothering. Plague is a strong word, connoting unremitting annoyance and harassment. To tease is to provoke or irritate persistently with petty distractions.

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Etymology

Origin of bother

First recorded in 1710–20; origin obscure; originally Hiberno-English; perhaps a hypercorrection of bodder, an alternative early form; perhaps a variant of pother ( def. )

Explanation

The word bother has many shades of meaning, but most of them involve trouble of some sort. You might wonder why you should bother to follow a recipe, until you taste what you've made without one. As a verb, bother can mean that you take the trouble to do something. It’s often presented as a negative: you might not bother to lock the house, or you may wonder why you should bother reading the instructions that came with your phone. Bother can also mean that you’re bugging someone or causing a minor inconvenience. The word can also have a sense of deeper worry, especially when something is bothering you, like a nagging sense of guilt.

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The obvious suspect is an undiagnosed injury, even if Skenes said at the All-Star break that he wasn’t hurt and that the dip in velocity didn’t bother him.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 14, 2026

This means that if you have no better than random success at picking the best and worst days, you shouldn’t bother.

From MarketWatch Aug. 14, 2026

Only after that did Pirro bother to review the evidence and conclude the renovation was at fault.

From Salon Aug. 7, 2026

“The heat doesn’t bother me much,” he said, unloading his bicycle — a blue and yellow 1989 Trek 400 — from the trunk of his car on a side street in Reseda.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 4, 2026

“Sorry to bother you. I was told you… Wait!”

From "The Undead Fox of Deadwood Forest" by Aubrey Hartman

What bothers me is that you signed a document — we don’t even know if it was an acceptance of appointment — without reading it.

From MarketWatch Aug. 7, 2026

"I think sometimes my lack of friends tends to bother the people around me more than it bothers me."

From BBC Aug. 1, 2026

Smith played catch Tuesday, Roberts said, which “went OK,” but Smith’s neck bothers him the most while swinging.

From Los Angeles Times Jun. 9, 2026

But it bothers me that the last two times that small-caps beat the biggest by so much, it was painful for investors.

From The Wall Street Journal Jun. 5, 2026

Something about his appearance bothers her, but she cannot identify what, exactly.

From "The Night Circus" by Erin Morgenstern

But until then, it hadn’t bothered him all season, minor-league rehab stints included.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 2, 2026

“If she’d have gone to Lowe’s or Home Depot, it wouldn’t bother me. But you’re opening a school? That bothered me.”

From Salon Jul. 27, 2026

It would have been embarrassing for them even to be confronted for saying so if anyone bothered to confront them.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 17, 2026

Oh, and he's not bothered about the term "youth club".

From BBC Jul. 10, 2026

Alt-A was just what they called crappy mortgage loans for which they hadn’t even bothered to acquire the proper documents—to verify the borrower’s income, say.

From "The Big Short" by Michael Lewis

When it offered him half a song, he said, “Good enough” — without even bothering to run it through a few rounds of polishing.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

But the result is often fishy products that exist because investors aren’t bothering to do the math.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 27, 2026

“Stop bothering Kim, OK?” the man said, according to Ma.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 10, 2026

Former British number one Draper has only played 15 matches in the past 12 months, largely because of the bruised humerus that has been bothering him for over a year.

From BBC Jun. 29, 2026

“Huh,” Jonah said, barely bothering to look at the paper.

From "Found" by Margaret Peterson Haddix

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