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bother

American  
[both-er] / ˈbɒð ər /

verb (used with object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to annoy; give trouble to; pester.

    His little sister kept bothering him for candy.

  2. to cause unease, anxiety, or worry in (someone).

    I hadn't realized how much being in a small boat bothers me until we got into choppy waters.

    Synonyms:
    disturb, molest, irritate, vex, harass
  3. to bewilder; confuse.

    His inability to understand the joke bothered him.


verb (used without object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to take the trouble; trouble or inconvenience oneself.

    Don't bother to call. He has no time to bother with trifles.

noun

  • bothers
    plural
  1. something troublesome, burdensome, or annoying.

    Doing the laundry every week can be a terrible bother.

  2. effort, work, or worry.

    Gardening takes more bother than it's worth.

  3. a worried or perplexed state.

    Don't get into such a bother about small matters.

  4. someone or something that bothers or annoys.

    My cousin is a perpetual bother to me.

interjection

  1. Chiefly British. (used to express mild irritation.)

bother British  
/ ˈbɒðə /

verb

  1. (tr) to give annoyance, pain, or trouble to; irritate

    his bad leg is bothering him again

  2. (tr) to trouble (a person) by repeatedly disturbing; pester

    stop bothering your father!

  3. (intr) to take the time or trouble; concern oneself

    don't bother to come with me

  4. (tr) to make (a person) alarmed or confused

    the thought of her husband's return clearly bothered her

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. a state of worry, trouble, or confusion

  2. a person or thing that causes fuss, trouble, or annoyance

  3. informal a disturbance or fight; trouble (esp in the phrase a spot of bother )

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

interjection

  1. an exclamation of slight annoyance

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

Bother, annoy, plague, tease imply persistent interference with one's comfort or peace of mind. Bother suggests causing trouble or weariness or repeatedly interrupting in the midst of pressing duties. To annoy is to vex or irritate by bothering. Plague is a strong word, connoting unremitting annoyance and harassment. To tease is to provoke or irritate persistently with petty distractions.

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Etymology

Origin of bother

First recorded in 1710–20; origin obscure; originally Hiberno-English; perhaps a hypercorrection of bodder, an alternative early form; perhaps a variant of pother ( def. )

Explanation

The word bother has many shades of meaning, but most of them involve trouble of some sort. You might wonder why you should bother to follow a recipe, until you taste what you've made without one. As a verb, bother can mean that you take the trouble to do something. It’s often presented as a negative: you might not bother to lock the house, or you may wonder why you should bother reading the instructions that came with your phone. Bother can also mean that you’re bugging someone or causing a minor inconvenience. The word can also have a sense of deeper worry, especially when something is bothering you, like a nagging sense of guilt.

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That is the part that should bother you — nobody has to plan it anymore.

From MarketWatch Sep. 9, 2026

Based on the evidence, my answer should be straightforward: Don’t bother with the whole-body MRI scan.

From Slate Sep. 9, 2026

While the film frets that the stupids are building an army to overthrow the world, it can’t even bother to come up with a counterrevolution.

From Salon Sep. 6, 2026

But she also believed in having fun; otherwise why bother?

From Los Angeles Times Sep. 4, 2026

“But we need to go. If we don’t, one of us will have to tell Mr. Palmer that we didn’t bother to look for his kids.”

From "Earthquake Terror" by Peg Kehret

"I figure it'll probably disintegrate and probably nobody will ever hear it, that's what bothers me... if it rots in there before they open it."

From Barron's Aug. 26, 2026

I think this really bothers a lot of young people.

From Slate Aug. 19, 2026

What bothers me is that you signed a document — we don’t even know if it was an acceptance of appointment — without reading it.

From MarketWatch Aug. 7, 2026

When Major League Baseball unveiled its initial batch of All-Star voting results Monday, four players from the team that so bothers the rest of America were in position to make the National League starting lineup.

From Los Angeles Times Jun. 16, 2026

“He bothers you again, you walk away, understand?”

From "Finding Langston" by Lesa Cline-Ransome

"I'm not bothered, I've dealt with worse," Conor Benn added.

From BBC Sep. 9, 2026

"They never bothered to tell us that that's what's happening," he said.

From Barron's Sep. 3, 2026

The lines reveal a man so contemptuous of views different from his own that he can’t be bothered to understand them.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 26, 2026

In a video on X, external, Count Binface - who is comedian Jonathan Harvey without the costume - said he was the "winning candidate… of the candidates who bothered to turn up".

From BBC Aug. 14, 2026

When I asked Mom why they bothered, when all that stuff would be gone soon, her eyes filled with tears.

From "The Last Cuentista" by Donna Barba Higuera

Ohtani reported that the area from his biceps to his neck was bothering him Wednesday night, Roberts said.

From Los Angeles Times Sep. 4, 2026

When it offered him half a song, he said, “Good enough” — without even bothering to run it through a few rounds of polishing.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

"I'm more bothered that England hasn't won the World Cup than I am to have a tattoo on my leg," the 36-year-old said, adding: "It's not bothering me. It's just a tattoo."

From BBC Aug. 4, 2026

“Stop bothering Kim, OK?” the man said, according to Ma.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 10, 2026

Well, I hurried down the lane, not even bothering to remove my apron.

From "The Bletchley Riddle" by Ruta Sepetys and Steve Sheinkin

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