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bother

American  
[both-er] / ˈbɒð ər /

verb (used with object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to annoy; give trouble to; pester.

    His little sister kept bothering him for candy.

  2. to cause unease, anxiety, or worry in (someone).

    I hadn't realized how much being in a small boat bothers me until we got into choppy waters.

    Synonyms:
    disturb, molest, irritate, vex, harass
  3. to bewilder; confuse.

    His inability to understand the joke bothered him.


verb (used without object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to take the trouble; trouble or inconvenience oneself.

    Don't bother to call. He has no time to bother with trifles.

noun

  • bothers
    plural
  1. something troublesome, burdensome, or annoying.

    Doing the laundry every week can be a terrible bother.

  2. effort, work, or worry.

    Gardening takes more bother than it's worth.

  3. a worried or perplexed state.

    Don't get into such a bother about small matters.

  4. someone or something that bothers or annoys.

    My cousin is a perpetual bother to me.

interjection

  1. Chiefly British. (used to express mild irritation.)

bother British  
/ ˈbɒðə /

verb

  1. (tr) to give annoyance, pain, or trouble to; irritate

    his bad leg is bothering him again

  2. (tr) to trouble (a person) by repeatedly disturbing; pester

    stop bothering your father!

  3. (intr) to take the time or trouble; concern oneself

    don't bother to come with me

  4. (tr) to make (a person) alarmed or confused

    the thought of her husband's return clearly bothered her

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. a state of worry, trouble, or confusion

  2. a person or thing that causes fuss, trouble, or annoyance

  3. informal a disturbance or fight; trouble (esp in the phrase a spot of bother )

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

interjection

  1. an exclamation of slight annoyance

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

Bother, annoy, plague, tease imply persistent interference with one's comfort or peace of mind. Bother suggests causing trouble or weariness or repeatedly interrupting in the midst of pressing duties. To annoy is to vex or irritate by bothering. Plague is a strong word, connoting unremitting annoyance and harassment. To tease is to provoke or irritate persistently with petty distractions.

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Etymology

Origin of bother

First recorded in 1710–20; origin obscure; originally Hiberno-English; perhaps a hypercorrection of bodder, an alternative early form; perhaps a variant of pother ( def. )

Explanation

The word bother has many shades of meaning, but most of them involve trouble of some sort. You might wonder why you should bother to follow a recipe, until you taste what you've made without one. As a verb, bother can mean that you take the trouble to do something. It’s often presented as a negative: you might not bother to lock the house, or you may wonder why you should bother reading the instructions that came with your phone. Bother can also mean that you’re bugging someone or causing a minor inconvenience. The word can also have a sense of deeper worry, especially when something is bothering you, like a nagging sense of guilt.

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This means that if you have no better than random success at picking the best and worst days, you shouldn’t bother.

From MarketWatch Aug. 14, 2026

It’s hard to tell the difference and understaffed federal agencies weren’t going to bother.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 4, 2026

Her birdie on the 13th arrived as Noh was in a spot of bother on the 12th having pushed a birdie chance way past its intended target.

From BBC Aug. 2, 2026

Saar told The Times that she didn’t let it bother her: “I’ve always done what I did and never felt I was competing with what was going on.”

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 27, 2026

The last day of school is pretty loose and they probably wouldn’t even bother to have one except that that’s when you clean out your desk.

From "The Best School Year Ever" by Barbara Robinson

What bothers me is that you signed a document — we don’t even know if it was an acceptance of appointment — without reading it.

From MarketWatch Aug. 7, 2026

"I think sometimes my lack of friends tends to bother the people around me more than it bothers me."

From BBC Aug. 1, 2026

Here’s what bothers me most about this event: It wasn’t a rogue action by some “bad” AI.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 23, 2026

Kang said it bothers him that others have died in similar incidents, and that other used cars might have the same problem.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 9, 2026

Alyssa will not forgive me, I know, but I find that bothers me less than I thought it would.

From "Dry" by Neal Shusterman and Jarrod Shusterman

“If she’d have gone to Lowe’s or Home Depot, it wouldn’t bother me. But you’re opening a school? That bothered me.”

From Salon Jul. 27, 2026

"You could see he wasn't bothered about the stoppage, he just needed those priceless rounds. But this fight against Wach is one he will not lose under any circumstances. It's ceremonial."

From BBC Jul. 24, 2026

It bothered Lacy, a serious artist who wrote with Kendrick Lamar and earned a Grammy nomination as a teenager in the R&B collective The Internet, suddenly thrust into living meme territory with “Bad Habit.”

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 22, 2026

“Nobody bothered to step up against him apart from a bin, which is a bit rubbish, isn’t it!”

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 12, 2026

She wore a basket on her head when the sun bothered her.

From "A Girl Named Disaster" by Nancy Farmer

When it offered him half a song, he said, “Good enough” — without even bothering to run it through a few rounds of polishing.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

"I'm more bothered that England hasn't won the World Cup than I am to have a tattoo on my leg," the 36-year-old said, adding: "It's not bothering me. It's just a tattoo."

From BBC Aug. 4, 2026

But the result is often fishy products that exist because investors aren’t bothering to do the math.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 27, 2026

But it still was bothering him during his latest buildup.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 17, 2026

“Don’t worry, okay? And you can always talk to me if you want. Is something bothering you?”

From "Keep It Together, Keiko Carter" by Debbi Michiko Florence

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