“You Guys”: Is There A Better Option?

Hey, y’all, it’s time to talk about
you guys
. We don’t mean you specifically … but the term itself.

For years, the phrase
you guys
has been employed as a useful workaround when addressing a mixed-gender group. But as gender norms evolve, the usefulness and appropriateness of
you guys
comes into question. The gendered baggage of this term has
some calling
for its retirement from the English lexicon. Here’s why:

What’s wrong with you guys?

Addressing a group of people as “guys” isn’t gender inclusive. True, the word


has a gender-neutral sense in Dictionary.com of “persons of either sex; people.” But the most common and prominent meaning of the word is “a man or boy; fellow.”

Some argue
that male-generic terms such as this reinforce
bias and male privilege. This argument comes into focus when you think about the absence of female-generic terms. When was the last time you heard a mixed-gender group of people addressed as “girls” or “ladies”? Additionally, by invoking female and male in the first place, the expression
you guys
excludes people who identify as nonbinary

So why has
you guys
become so widespread? It fills a gap in the English language. We don’t have many options for second-person plural pronouns. Spanish has the handy
, but in English we are left with clunky approximations that often miss the mark tone-wise (
, humans?)

What can we use in place of you guys?

There is one option that strikes us as particularly useful:

is a contraction of you all, a construction that English speakers in the South have found useful for centuries.
’s regional provenance prevents some from embracing it. But
others hail it
as the gender-neutral answer to
you guys
and argue for its inclusion in Standard English. What’s more, a map based on the Harvard Dialect Survey shows y’all and you all popping up in places you might not expect as far back as 2003 (when the survey was completed). 

Other regionalisms have emerged to fill the gap, too, including


 (hello, Pittsburgh),




, or


, but is there really a choice here, y’all?
is warm, and it’s inclusive. It’s casual but not overly personal, and heck, it’s just a lot of fun to say (try it:
). In fact, one might say it’s the
mot juste
for most any occasion. 

Of course, some will hold the gender-neutral sense of
near and dear and continue to use
hey guys
with no ill will … but as we evolve our language tends to as well. So if you’re searching for a baggage-free option, don’t be afraid to try y’all on for size

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